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May 25th, 2011, 09:33 PM
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with death. Its just never ending in my family anymore I dont get it. Everyone thats young or good is either dead or sick. The bad ones are all great! Fine and dandy! I don't get it.

I'm really numb to the loss at the moment but my cousin who just turned 21 was killed tonight on his motorcycle. He was a good kid, didnt deserve this at all. I'm at a loss for words. Just wish I could hold my little boy right now


Rest peacefully my sweet cousin
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May 26th, 2011, 08:42 AM
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So sorry. Seems that the good ones leave too soon.
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I'm so sorry sweetie.
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May 27th, 2011, 06:55 PM
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Thanks ladies I'm so sad.
E. B. Gormley Funeral - Thats his obit and stuff.

The whole story now that I have it, is so devastating. It was his mom and dads anniversary that day.. he was leaving to go somewhere with his 2 friends who were behind him on their bikes. They were literally no more than 1 minute from his house. He hit a little fall in the road with some rocks and got thrown off the bike, and instead of the bike going forward it followed him sideways. He slammed into a mailbox and some rocks, the bike landed on him and crushed his chest. His mom was driving home and no more than 5 mins after it happened she was going past and saw him on the road... I mean seriously, can you imagine??? That poor sweet mother.

I'm really getting depressed
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May 27th, 2011, 07:59 PM
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*hugs* I'm so sorry that you're having to go through another loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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May 30th, 2011, 02:40 AM
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I wish you didn't have to deal with this right now, we're supposed to be having happy times... I'm around if you need anyone. Just FB me, it's on my phone so I'm pretty much reachable always.
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May 30th, 2011, 06:49 PM
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Thanks hun I appreciate that.

The funeral today was so hard. His dad did the eulogy, which had me bawling like a baby. Then at the cemetary he was hugging the casket and saying goodbye and love you son, etc., I bawled again. Then afterwards he comes up to me and tells me to make sure that once my son is born I hug him everyday. That just really got to me. I cry just typing it
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October 10th, 2011, 11:49 AM
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I truly feel your pain. I have had so much loss in the past 7 months, I am not sure ho I manage to get up each morning! I was looking through posts here and yours caught my attention.... my one constant feeling is I am done, I am jinxed and bad things are falling around me all the time. {{HUGS}}
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October 10th, 2011, 08:18 PM
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Oh I am so sorry for your loss One thing Wojtek's dad keeps telling me is to hug my son everyday, and that I do. Your family is in my prayers. ((((Big Hugs))))
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Thanks ladies I'm so sad.
E. B. Gormley Funeral - Thats his obit and stuff.

The whole story now that I have it, is so devastating. It was his mom and dads anniversary that day.. he was leaving to go somewhere with his 2 friends who were behind him on their bikes. They were literally no more than 1 minute from his house. He hit a little fall in the road with some rocks and got thrown off the bike, and instead of the bike going forward it followed him sideways. He slammed into a mailbox and some rocks, the bike landed on him and crushed his chest. His mom was driving home and no more than 5 mins after it happened she was going past and saw him on the road... I mean seriously, can you imagine??? That poor sweet mother.

I'm really getting depressed
Oh my Gosh! I cannot even believe what I just read. What mother deserves to see their child like that? I get sick just picturing it. It is at these moments when we wonder where God was at that time. However, I totally believe that this young man was too good for this life, he has gone to a better place and God did take him away to be one of his angels. Those who pass away, feel no pain emotionally, however, it is the ones that are left with his memory. His mom will be haunted for life and I wish u and her the best of luck. I really am at a loss for words right now.......
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March 11th, 2012, 08:09 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can relate to you in so many ways. My family as well as dealt with such a huge amount of loss. I also lost one of my good friends on a motorcycle death. He was one of my best friends and at the time his wife was 6 months pregnant and came upon the scene because he had never called her and told her he had made it to work so she went looking for him and came on the scene. I could never imagine. A car had hit him and he got ejected from his bike and died at the scene. The photos of the scene were all over the news which made it worse. I miss him terribly. He was such a great man who had a 1 year old and a 6 month pregnant wife. I never understand why the good people are taken while the bad ones seem to live forever.
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