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March 5th, 2012, 12:45 PM
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This is going to sound very juvenile for me, but I've never actually been with a girl before; not even romantically. I've had a couple of strong crushes, but I've never really had the opportunity to actually act on them, partially because I've been in a loving, committed relationship for so long. But, a lot of people within the LGBT community believe that unless you've had first hand experiences with whatever sex you're attracted to, you don't actually know if you're attracted to them or not. I personally feel that it runs a lot deeper than they give it credit for.

So yeah, my question for ya'll is did you realize your sexuality before having a sexual encounter with the same sex? I realize that a lot of you have had very strong clues regarding your sexuality while growing up, but I'm talking about straight out "knowing".
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March 6th, 2012, 08:31 AM
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I don't actually think a lot of people feel that way - maybe it's a misconception? I mean, heterosexual people have crushes and are attracted to the opposite sex long before they have their first sexual experience with one. I was sexually attracted to women years before I had my first sexual relationship with one. I consider myself lucky that I even had the chance, because I know I would've continued feeling the way that I do even without acting on it, and that would have just been really frustrating to always wonder what it would be like.
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March 6th, 2012, 12:55 PM
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I don't actually think a lot of people feel that way - maybe it's a misconception?
I think I probably just had the misfortune of running into the jerks of the LGBT community, plus all the homophobes who try to rationalize it to suit what they like. But, yeah. It's probably not a common thing to believe something like that.
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March 6th, 2012, 02:26 PM
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I acknowledged my bisexuality about 8 years before I even became close to having a sexual encounter with a woman!!!!

When you know, you just know...
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March 6th, 2012, 08:03 PM
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I agree with Krissy and Emma.
I have known pretty much my entire life, I am attracted to females.
It wasn't up until 2 years ago that I was able to fully have relations with a girl.
The second my lips touched hers, I just knew it in my heart, what I've imagined all my life, that this is what I am! I loved it, immediately. Plus, the attraction with her was so strong, there was no denying anything!
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March 9th, 2012, 01:07 PM
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I can't remember a time when I didnt like women..even at a young age when most girls are looking at boys and thinking they are so cute..I found the girls attractive..my feelings were validated in middle school where I happened to be at a friends house and I confessed to her that I thought I was a lesbian..somehow we ended up "dating" or the middle school equivalent of dating..secretly for 2 yrs until she moved..Ive just always clicked more with women than men..
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