If you are in a relationship, or are married - do you go on dates?
Kind of? I'm not sure what really qualifies for a date anymore. I mean, it seems like it's time that you just spend together, alone. In which case, we have dates almost every night for several hours.
How often?
See above.
What do you usually do?
When we're physically together we go to our favorite places to eat, hang around the mall, go to parks and chill, and lounge around together watching tv/playing video games. When we're apart (which is, unfortunately, most of the year) voice chat on Skype as soon as we're both home up until we go to bed. Typically that's for seven hours every night! We still play video games, watch movies, and eat food together. It's just... ya know, through the internet.
Who generally suggests the date?
It's typically pretty even between the two of us.