Log In Sign Up

When ppl assume!


Forum: LGBT Mommies and Mommies to be

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To LGBT Mommies and Mommies to be LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
April 25th, 2012, 11:20 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 1,029
Hi again ladies..Im trying to be more involved in this board but with all the other areas on JM's I take part if I tend to get a bit airheaded..LOL..so Ive been thinking a lot about this lately and I was just wondering if anyone else has encountered this..When my husband and I were separated a few yrs ago I was dating a really great girl and when we'd go out..ppl would just assume that we were lesbians and that my kids were either conceived with donor sperm or adopted..Honestly I dont know why it bothered me but it kinda did..Does anyone else just hate the assumption that you are either gay or straight? I do understand that some ppl really do believe that bisexuality is the gateway to being gay but I guess Im kind of outside the box..LOL..
__________________






Reply With Quote
  #2  
April 29th, 2012, 04:40 PM
Gaby&Emmy'sMama's Avatar aka NZ-Emma
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Christchurch, NZ
Posts: 56,619
this is something my girlfriend HATES.. she hates labels, and people assuming she's now a lesbian, because she has a girlfriend. and when she tries to explain to them "I like men and happen to be in love with a woman" they look at her like she's crazy.....

When we were out with the girls while she was down, I had a few 'looks' from older people, and you could tell they were thinking "look at those fandangled lesbians, with their test tube babies"... in reality, the girls are mine, fathered in relationships with men, before I even KNEW Lauriel
__________________






Reply With Quote
  #3  
April 30th, 2012, 11:05 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 1,029
Thanks for coming to the rescue..I was just really annoyed about this the other day..probably all my hormones running amok on me..LOL..
__________________






Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:14 PM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0