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October 19th, 2007, 01:39 PM
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This loss is my 3rd. I had 2 natural m/c just before 6 weeks with each. When I lost my babies I was very upset and angry.

I was diagoniced with my ectopic on 10/01/07 after bleeding all weekend thinking I was having another m/c. I had surgery at 6pm on 10/2/07 to remove my ectopic. I cried all day up until the doctor gave me something to help me "relax" before my surgery. I felt so horrible that I was knowingly ending my childs life. The u/s showed no heartbeat at 5w 6d and I had my surgery at 6w exactly so I was praying that my baby would not feel anything.

When I woke up from my surgery around 9pm on 10/2/07 DH told me the best news I have ever heard. The doctor stated that though he had to remove my right tube due to damage that he found no 'fetal tissue' in the sac. I was and still am so happy about that. While I still morn the baby that we could have had I feel so blessed to know that my child never even left Heaven.

I feel very confused on my feelings. I feel like a huge weight is lifted off of my shoulders. I am just so glad that God knew that something was not right that He stopped my child from forming. But at the same time I am sad. We really wanted this baby. Although this loss does not feel like the other 2 I am still greiving. And I feel like giving up my right tube for an empty sac was a great trade.

My head feels so messed up! I feel bad for being happy but I feel bad for being sad. I know I will feel normal agian eventually but I just feel so mixed up inside.

Well that is my two cents. I am sorry for every other women who has had a loss and/or an ectopic. It is a terrible pain for any mother to have to go though. Just remember that life is to presious not to try again.

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October 26th, 2007, 12:50 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses.
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