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October 2nd, 2013, 07:59 AM
njkatc's Avatar Kelly
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So I thought I'd come back to JM for some support. I'm 38 and will be 39 when this baby arrives. We weren't planning on this. My oldest is 6 and youngest will be 3 in a couple of weeks and I had decided that we were done. Then I didn't pay attention to my tracking app and here we are. I thought that we were further from the window than we actually were. I'm struggling with this because it wasn't planned. Quite honestly, I'm terrified. I know that it will all work out, but the amount of anxiety this is causing me is painful. Luckily, I had to find a new OB and so I'm going Tuesday since I'm overdue for a pap. I'm hoping that after my appointment I will feel better about all of this. Its so much fun to also feel guilty for not being over the moon immediately. I'm extremely stressed out about this one.

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October 2nd, 2013, 06:13 PM
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Hugs. I can imagine your surprise. Hoping your appointment goes well.
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October 29th, 2013, 12:27 PM
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Hi there. I'm feeling your stress too. I'm 40. I'll be 41 in 2 weeks. I have 3 children, 17, almost 16, & 6 (in 2weeks). I'm freaking out right now, along with you. I'm terrified and excited at the same time.
Pregnancy and I aren't the best of friends. I'm typically high risk, and with a few chronic health conditions now, this one will definitely be high risk. I just confirmed my pregnancy suspicions today. My first appointment is Monday, and it can't come fast enough. I'm hoping the doctors will ease my anxiety and fear. I have no idea what to expect this time around. I guess I'll just hang on and enjoy the ride.
Good Luck to you. ;-)
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November 1st, 2013, 10:11 AM
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I understand. I was not expecting to have another baby. I'm 37 and have a nine year old and five year old. I am really stressed about the time the new baby will take from them. I think my nine year old will be happy, but I don't think my five year old,will be at all.
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November 4th, 2013, 07:29 AM
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I am new here as well. 6 years ago my husband and I were intensely immersed in TTC. Not until 4 years ago I found out I had breast cancer. We were waiting for my period so I could go have my MRI but it never came. They gave me a EPT and I was pregnant. I lost the baby.(actually two. I had gotten pregnant twice, more details to come later).
So these last 4 years we didn't even think about getting pregnant and then BAM!!! Age 39 I am. I feel the same way with you. We tried so hard then gave up. I am totally to excited. I don't think it is because of my cancer it is because of my age I hope we all can share in these coming months!
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November 9th, 2013, 05:49 AM
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While I knew there was still a possibility of another pgcy, my mind had begun shifting into the next stage of life the last few months. I had fully expected another child after my last, but I had two mcs at 11-13 weeks. I was really thinking I just wasn't going to have another one. I wasn't shocked to find out I was pg, but it did take me back. My children are so self-sufficient now... not to mention, DH & I are totally not baby people (shh). We love our children, but it wouldn't kill us to skip the first 8 weeks

This has really rocked DH. He is coming around now. He admits it's a total selfish thing. Life is easier with everyone out of diapers and most out of car seats. You don't have to schedule life around the needs of a baby...

All that said; your fears and anxieties are normal, but since they don't help anything it's best to do what you can to let them go.

I see you posted this a month ago. I hope you're doing better.

eta: Well, duh. I see you're on my DI forum!
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