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Oh and I'd love to have some terrific friends who weren't so self-absorbed and come and help me even once. I don't want baby gifts, I want the gift of your time.
Do I sound miserable? I am, tonight, I am. Sorry ladies. I just don't get why at 37 and having a baby has suddenly made me something "weird". Others are done having theirs and wonder why I'd go back and "start over".
OOps this is a vent. My apologies.
Okay and a massage every night![/b]
I could have typed that myself. I have one, yes ONE friend. She keeps phoning and telling me she's going to come over on such & such day, then always stands me up. As soon as someone else calls her, she drops me like a hot potato instead of telling them she already made plans. I wish she would keep her word once and come visit, or at least stop calling me and making plans she doesn't intend to keep.
And yep, I'm weird too, everyone treats me like I have the plague because I am "starting over".
Frankly, the lives-less-common are often the most rewarding, no?
What I mean is, you will learn things through this experience others around you never will - because they won't have lived it first hand. That makes your life of more depth, even if you go it sans peers at times.
I find that thought kind of exciting, don't you? Hang in there!