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April 13th, 2009, 11:00 AM
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I desperately want to be a surromommy. Have wanted this for a couple of years, done my research, still doing research, this IS FOR ME...not for DH, he refuses to let me do this, and I can't do it w/o his blessing, KWIM? How do I convince him that this is what I was made to do?
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May 13th, 2009, 09:32 PM
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I desperately want to be a surromommy. Have wanted this for a couple of years, done my research, still doing research, this IS FOR ME...not for DH, he refuses to let me do this, and I can't do it w/o his blessing, KWIM? How do I convince him that this is what I was made to do?
Hey there!. How are you!? I think from reading your posts you finally got hubby to agree? I can't remember, it's almost 10 here. LOL Anyway, just wanted to drop by and say "Hi"
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May 26th, 2009, 11:31 PM
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I love SMO (I'm a TS x 2 ~ retired)

For me DH was in shock when I first mentioned it. We talked about it and talked about it and talked about it several times (over a period of time) and well eventually he came around. I hope that happens for you as well!!

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June 15th, 2009, 10:27 PM
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If you do not get him on board you can not get far as he will need to be tested and sign contracts and such I hope it works out for you
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June 25th, 2009, 05:15 PM
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Yea, I know he needs to be on board. I have been trying to get him to agree for about 2 years I think. No luck yet....
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June 25th, 2009, 08:08 PM
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Aww, I know how you feel. DH didn't want me to do it either at first, but I gave him lots of resources to study for himself and told him the diff between GS and TS. He was fine with GS when he learned about it. Plus, when he really understood how much a family/person really, really wanted a baby and that he could help be a part of that dream, he was super excited! Get him talking to other surros about their experiences. SMO is a GREAT resource! And have him talk to IM's and IF's about how much having a baby would mean to them. He might just come around. My husband did! Good luck!
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