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August 1st, 2010, 11:59 AM
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How did you become pregnant? IUI or HI? If you used HI, did you do so in a hotel, the IP's house or your own home? If you did IUI, did you use an RE or just a regular OB/GYN? Did you use medication? If you did, what did you use? Did you end up with multiples?

Do you still stay in contact with your IP's and the baby/ies? If you still are in contact, do they consider you the biomom? The aunt? How do you feel being so connected with the child? Do you see yourself in the child? Does that scare you at times?

If you are not in contact with the IP's and child/ren, do you wish you were? Did things end badly? Or was it just a mutual split? Do you still get pictures? Emails? Phone calls?

Do you buy presents for the child on birthday, Christmas or other major holiday? Do you receive gifts from the IP's on special days like your birthday or the birthday of the child? Are you invited to birthday parties?
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Try 1--Sept 2010 negative Try 2--Jan 2011 negative
Try 3--May 2011-miscarried at 5 weeks
Transfer 4---PREGNANT!!! BFP @ 5.5dp3dt Beta at 11dp3dt was 164.6

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August 4th, 2010, 06:36 PM
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How did you become pregnant? IUI or HI? If you used HI, did you do so in a hotel, the IP's house or your own home? If you did IUI, did you use an RE or just a regular OB/GYN? Did you use medication? If you did, what did you use? Did you end up with multiples? We did HIs, used a regular OB, it was a singleton.

Do you still stay in contact with your IP's and the baby/ies? If you still are in contact, do they consider you the biomom? The aunt? How do you feel being so connected with the child? Do you see yourself in the child? Does that scare you at times? I am his aunt (literally), I still see him at time since he is family. I don't see myself in him. I actually have to remind myself that I actually carried him and that he has half of my genes. I actually forget.

If you are not in contact with the IP's and child/ren, do you wish you were? Did things end badly? Or was it just a mutual split? Do you still get pictures? Emails? Phone calls?

Do you buy presents for the child on birthday, Christmas or other major holiday? Do you receive gifts from the IP's on special days like your birthday or the birthday of the child? Are you invited to birthday parties? I do, but then again we are family. This may be different if he was not family.
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