I've been using a Medela pump in style advance.
It's double and works great. 2 phase letdown.
I've been exclusively pumping to bottle feed my dd and she's 3 weeks. Just today I got her to latch on.
Anyway. It's pretty quiet and I also had big nipple issues. I bought 30mm flanges and they have a set one step larger that are XXL if you need that.
Do you have insurance? If so call and ask if they cover the purchase of a pump with a prescription. A lot of ins companies do as long as its purchased through a durable medical equipment company who is in network.
I paid $0 for mine through insurance.
I actually have 2 Medela PIS. I bought one when leaving the hospital and the second one the ins pd for. They are about $300 in stores.
I have a 2 story house so I wanted to have a pump on both floors to make it easier since I pump so much.
Anyway I think the Medela pis is the closest to the symphony you will get.
I used a symphony in the hospital and honestly I can't tell much of a diff between the two.
For ref I pump about 40 to 45 oz a day using my Medela.
It also had a battery pack so u can pump without electricity.
Do you not have an option of using any type of office somewhere in the bank to pump?
I kinda thought there was a law about having to provide a place. I could be wrong.