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October 30th, 2011, 09:58 PM
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a full year. I found a snag in ordering our marriage certificate (which we need for immigration) and if we don't file for Immigration by the end of the month I won't be able to travel home and get the pre wedding stuff I need done.

I feel so defeated right now. First our TTC date pushed back by 9+ months, and now possibly our wedding. Nothing ever goes my way!
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October 31st, 2011, 01:59 PM
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Oh no!!! I'm so sorry! I hope you can figure something out so you don't have to push the date back a full year!!! That's just too long!!!
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October 31st, 2011, 08:37 PM
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Well the processing for immigration is at 4-5 months.. which would mean from the time I'd get back from home (which means not buying my dress until May for an August wedding) I'd have 6 weeks to get everything crafty ready (like the slideshows, and scrapbooks).. and in that 6 weeks I have to pack our apt, move across country, unpack, and repack for the trip to home.

I just don't think I can pull it off... We are legally married... so I want this to be my dream... And thanks to New Orleans and their flipping lies, I'm not going to get it if we try and aim for August 2012.
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November 1st, 2011, 03:15 PM
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I don't understand anything about immigration but it sounds frustrating!!! I would be so upset too!
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November 1st, 2011, 04:09 PM
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basically from the time we submit our forms there are four wait times. 1-work visa 2- travel permit 3- Medical exam 4- final interview.

It can take 4-5 months for that final interview. And because I've overstayed my visa by a significant portion of time (2+ months), they may withhold my travel permit until my interview.
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November 1st, 2011, 05:03 PM
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I'm sorry! That all sounds incredibly frustrating. I hope you can figure something out...
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November 2nd, 2011, 10:29 AM
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Thanks Girls. I've had a few family members tell me not to rush it, to take my time and plan the wedding I want, not something quick for them. My aunt told me to go ahead and make myself a flower girl or a ring bearer hahahahaha
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:50 PM
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My aunt told me to go ahead and make myself a flower girl or a ring bearer hahahahaha
Awwww LOL!!

I'm sorry that things have to get pushed back, i hate when things happen unexpectedly like that. But that time will be here before you know it, you just have a little longer to make sure everything is perfect and exactly the way you want it to be
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:04 PM
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thanks hun. I've come to peace with putting it off I think.. tho I'm sure if we do push it back when August 11th comes I'll be upset. My cousin did this too, so she could get the wedding she really wanted.

DH on the other hand, thinks I should forgoe the scrapbooks and slideshows that I so desperately want (one is a part of my father daughter dance, since dad wont be there) ..... But since I hope to only get married once.. I want to do it my way!
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Me: Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, PCOS, Insulin resistant
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Attempting vitamins for remainder of 2014
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