[plan4fate]

By choice of course! The more I think about the dollar signs, the more scared I get. We have been very careful with our money, but in reality we have 0 savings. I am not really comfortable pulling out 5k from what he makes from Jan to June to get married (plus 2k+ for travel expenses).

So we are thinking that maybe we'll hold off, put away money, have a kid or two, and then go up and do it. Will give me more time to get my weight off, which would be fantastic.

And I'm only going to be 33.. and will give DH time to get further along in the healing from his skin!

[Shea131]

Whatever you decide to do will be the right decision!! It sounds like you've got it all planned out!