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So since we don't have all much time left until the big day, and could possibly have even less than we anticipate, Mike and I are looking into taking out a loan. Neither of us have done anything like this, but I've heard it's hard to not be denied... Mike couldn't even get approved for our bank's credit card because of no credit history.
Does anyone have any help or suggestions for us? It's a small amount to a bank but a huge amount to us.. What are they going to base their answer off of? And honestly do you ladies think it's even worth it?? I mean, we sure do, especially since it's doubtful we'll have the cash upfront in time. But I need some opinions/tips here.
I wish I could help...but honestly, I let DH handle *all* of our financial stuff and would have no idea where to start making any suggestions. I hope someone here can offer some insight, though. Hugs to you, I know it's stressful to even consider!
mom to Rachael, 10 ~ Milly, 6 ~ foster mom (waiting on the next call)
Sometimes you can get a credit card that has an anual fee, and a high rate as a first timer, if you are sure to pay if off each month, it shouldn't be a problem. This is also a good way t get your credit started, just put gas on it and pay it off right away. You will be off to a good start, and don't cancel the card, even with a zero balance, for your first card,, the longer you have it the better it will look.
I've had credit for over a year now but since our move I had a hard time paying on time until we got the net, so I can't imagine how good it is right now. My husband JUST got approved for his first card like a couple months ago and he can't even be approved for our bank's credit card. Nobody will co-sign and I can't get a credit line higher than 1,000 and I already closed that account out anyway, and that isn't even half of what we need.
With that said, we've already told my midwife that we won't be doing a homebirth. If it was a matter of choice I'd just find someone else, but EVERY single midwife here charges $3,000 minimum. I stressed and got mini depressed over it and decided it was best for me at this point to just admit defeat and NOT let myself STRESS. I hope I did the right thing though
It sounds great you may be getting a doula though. That may be all you need anyways! I wouldn't know, but wouldn't midwifes pro-rate you just to do a birth and not prenatal care since you are so far along? I know you had a hard time finding one in the first place though, right? Even here in the Bay Area there was only 3-5 major well known midwifes around to do births on my side of the bay. I wish midwives weren't such slim pickings.