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The cost is pretty hefty..and it looks like right now we'll barely be able to make ends meet, so I think a homebirth may be out of the question.. How did you ladies afford your midwife and homebirth?
I was thinking of setting up a homebirth fund, but my biggest fear is what happens if we don't get enough in the end?
My mom, and I quote, said "Well you can do meds free in the hospital"
Yes, that's true, but they'll want to hook me up to an IV anyways, will push pitocin and what happens if I get another bad nurse? I'm still young, so they're still judging..
Not to mention no moving around much..
The nearest birth center is an hour and a half away, so that seems unlikely too.
I second the doula option! I think that would be the best second.
For us, a homebirth is MUCH cheaper than delivering in a hospital since my DH is self-employed and our health insurance does not cover maternity or prenatal care. It was going to be over $9,000 for a hospital birth after all the discounts for self-pay and pre-pay! Our midwives only charge $3100 so it's a great deal for us!
I hope you can work something out! Sometimes, you can get insurance to cover a homebirth, but it really depends.
I just saw that you are still very early in your pregnancy. I would talk to your midwives and see if they can set up some kind of payment plan, they are usually very willing to work with you to get the birth you want. See if there are any ways you can cut back or start saving now too. We started saving immediately after I found out I was pregnant. It was hard to save as much as we did, we we did without and made it work- cut out eating out, no a/c, only using one car and cutting back on driving- things like that. The little things add up!
Mommy to 2 girls , 6/26/10 & 12/31/11
Can you talk to your Midwife and ask if she takes a payment plan? I know some Midwives who have a payment plan of as little as $20 a month until it's payed off. Some Midwives do it for a reduced fee for low cost families as well. I would talk to your Midwife or other Midwives and see what they can offer. If homebirth is truly out of the quesiton then I would for sure get a Doula. There are many low cost or free Doulas out there.
Mama to G, L & twins F & M
Started off 2013 homebirthing suprise twins Fia Celesta & Maddalena Isabella
The midwives I've contacted don't do payment plans because they've had troubles actually getting paid when they do them.
I'm going to keep checking into what I can do to lessen the cost, but with my medical history with DD and everything, I think I may just settle for the hospital and hopefully find a doula.