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So I really thought I may have ovulated for the first time a couple weeks ago. Last week I had every pregnancy symptom in the book--cramps, bloating, constipation, nausea (and vomitting), and dizzyness. I felt exactly how I felt before I found out I was pregnant with Lochlann. Took a pregnancy test yesterday and saw that . Now most of me was relieved because we're waiting TTC until 2010 for several reasons (mostly financial). But I can't help that tiny little part of me that was so sad. And now I feel selfish for being sad and wanting another baby now. I obviously didn't ovulate yet and I've been charting CM to avoid. I know now is the worst time possible for us to have another baby but I also know that if it happened we would make it work. Not that I'm going to try; we're still careful and I'm still charting. I don't know, just a little bummed out I guess. I think the fact that I'm still infertile is making me feel depressed too.
You're more than entitled to feel a touch sad. I don't think you're being selfish at all for wanting another baby. It's in our nature to want to have babies and not wait for schedules, finances and other reasons. You don't ever need to apologise about your feelings on this board ~ vent away.