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February 22nd, 2012, 06:04 PM
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Do you or your husband keep in contact with either of your exes?
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I don't... but I think my dh has a few on his FB page (I don't think he talks to them much though).
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February 22nd, 2012, 06:36 PM
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No.
I dont even think we know where any of them are LOL.

In truth, my husband is the most serious and longest relationship Ive ever had. My "exes" consist of a few guys I dated once or twice.
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February 23rd, 2012, 05:58 AM
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I talked to one for a while but that was mostly when he and his now-wife would come to the store I was working at. I still talk to his best friend (who I love to pieces).

I also talk to the sister of one of my exes. I'm kinda led yo believe (by past convos with him, not with her) that I broke his heart by deciding not to put up with his crap.
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February 23rd, 2012, 06:38 AM
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I don't have contact with any of mine. The most serious relationship prior to my marriage, that ex hates me. A lot. The others, I'm not on bad terms with or anything but we just don't talk. One tried to add me to Facebook about a year ago and I decided it wasn't something I was comfortable with.

We do have contact with one of dh's exes, but that's because there are children there so it's kind of unavoidable. We don't have contact with any others (there are really only a couple for him, too).
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February 23rd, 2012, 06:49 AM
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No neither of us do.
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February 23rd, 2012, 09:04 AM
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I do, several of them. I have a few on FB, and they're very close to me. (both have been in my life since I was a child).

DH- not so much. He remained in contact with a few for a few years, but they faded away.
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February 23rd, 2012, 10:33 AM
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No, neither of us do. But we both never had a relationship with anyone else except each other.
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February 23rd, 2012, 02:04 PM
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No but my dad employs one of them which i'm not happy about. I'm sorta a jerk and don't even say hello to him when i go see my dad at work Whatever, now that i moved out of state i haven't been there in some time.

As for DH, before he met me he only had one gf that lasted for a few weeks, nothing serious so no contact remains between them.
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February 25th, 2012, 12:49 PM
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No, but we started dating in highschool and didn't have any real serious relationships before each other
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February 27th, 2012, 03:47 PM
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February 28th, 2012, 04:16 PM
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No i dont talk to any of them. I tried the "we can just be friends" card and it didnt work well. I dont have an issue with most of them, but i also have no interest in actually talking to them. Unfortunately one of them who was very abusive I DO have to deal with because of our son together. But I have been unable to get him to see or speak to or support his son for 2 1/2 years no. But as of last week i finally got the paperwork finalized for child support enforcement through the state. It took them 2 years to get my case to this point..
I'm pretty sure DH doesnt talk to any of his ex's. But even if he did I dont think it would bother me.
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February 29th, 2012, 06:49 AM
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No....and we don't do facebook....so I'm sure that helps.
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February 29th, 2012, 03:51 PM
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I talk to one of my ex's on a semi-regular basis. He's deployed to Afghanistan right now and my husband knows it. I have no contact with my ex-husband; which is sad since we have a 6 year old together. I'm actually friends with one of my husband's ex girlfriends and I tolerate his last ex-gf because of their son.
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February 29th, 2012, 10:45 PM
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I talk to one ex.. he added me to FB when he needed some enlightenment into the awful person he could be.. an no one else would give him a straightforward answer. I no longer worry about hurting his feelings.. but he was grateful. Now we chat once or twice a week.

I talk to the fling I had before DH once in a while too. DH knows him (from online game) and I always tell him I've talked to him. Usually he's got some wild story for me.. so DH likes to hear the excitement.


DH does talk to his ex... because they have a child. I talk to her too. lol. We have a very good relationship with her, she wants to get to know me on a friend level when we move back to Wi full time. It was DH's deepest wish that he never shared... he wanted us to be friends for their son's sake. He likes to tell his teacher that his Mom's hang out.
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March 4th, 2012, 04:58 PM
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Niether of us do.
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March 12th, 2012, 03:41 PM
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We are friends with some of our exes on FB but we do not get on their very often at all.
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