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May 7th, 2012, 06:26 PM
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what if you had said no to the proposal......

would you guys still have stayed together or would that have ended it?
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May 7th, 2012, 06:30 PM
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Given the time of when he proposed, we probably would. We were engaged 2 weeks after dating, we were married before we were together a year. We've been together 7 years and married 7 years this coming August. I can't imagine going any other way, but I do think we would have stayed together.
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I think if I had said no, that probably would have ended it...but there was really no other answer. We were 100% sure what we were doing when he asked.
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May 8th, 2012, 05:55 AM
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I think if I had said no, that probably would have ended it...but there was really no other answer. We were 100% sure what we were doing when he asked.

Ditto!!
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It probably would have ended for us also. Josh was leaving for the military and would be stationed 24 hours away. I think that it was follow to NM or let him go.
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There was no real proposal, it was just a "its gonna happen" thing LOL.

So we'd have continued on whether married or not.
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May 8th, 2012, 06:37 AM
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i dont know because he was very adamant about gettin married. and considering i had hinted at it since we had been together for 6 months he probably would have been taken aback if i had said no although i think he was prepared for it since we were actually seperated and i was living elsewhere when he finally proposed, so if i had said no we would have either stayed seperated or possibly eventually started dating again
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May 8th, 2012, 08:20 AM
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Its hard to say. We were together for 6.5 yrs, and had moved in together about 6 weeks before. We'd both talked about it before, but I thought the trial living together would be longer than 6 weeks! I'd hope we were still together but at the same time I doubt it.
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May 8th, 2012, 10:36 AM
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I think if I had said no, that probably would have ended it...but there was really no other answer. We were 100% sure what we were doing when he asked.
Exactly!
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lol I kinda did turn him down the first time. Not a proposal, but when he made his intentions clear I told him to slow the heck down before he scared me off. That I wasn't ready to make that kind of decision.

2 months later... it was me talking wedding plans. LOL!

He didn't officially propose until the night before our ceremony, and we had been married over 2m before I got my ring (I had a wedding band).
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I think if I had said no, that probably would have ended it...but there was really no other answer. We were 100% sure what we were doing when he asked.
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