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September 21st, 2012, 09:35 AM
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Would you have your mom as a surrogate mom? why or why not?
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September 21st, 2012, 09:53 AM
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NO! We are not close at all, and I wouldn't want to share that personal of an experience with her, for starters. Plus she is in terrible health, and I wouldn't want to put anybody at risk.
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September 21st, 2012, 10:32 AM
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She has nothing to carry a baby in anymore LOL so the answer would be no.

Even if she had all her parts(they were taken out when I was still in high school) Id have to say no. I wouldnt want her going through that at her age.
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September 21st, 2012, 10:49 AM
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Probably not
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September 21st, 2012, 12:16 PM
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Unfortunately no in my case also...not because I think it's creepy though. When you spend enough time praying anyone, just anyone would offer their uterus to you so you can have your family, you start to see a whole lot of things, in a whole lot of different ways.

Nevertheless, she had difficult pregnancies, and 2 miscarriages between my brother and I, and was never supposed to get pregnant herself originally, SO, even if she had all her parts too - she would have too difficult a time carrying it at an advanced age.
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September 21st, 2012, 12:17 PM
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No. I love my mom and I know that she would do anything for me but she isn't in the best health. Even if she were in good health, the answer would still be no.
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September 21st, 2012, 02:50 PM
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September 21st, 2012, 03:03 PM
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No. One, we've already decided not to use a surrogate since it's wouldn't really help us. But even if we would, we wouldn't use her. Her health is pretty bad and she's a chain smoker with a history of premature births.
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September 21st, 2012, 03:12 PM
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No, we are close and I would do anything to be able to have a child, and I don't find it creepy, but both her pregnancies were awful. I remember her being in hospital full time for the last 5 months of her pregnancy with my brother, and I had to go and live with my Nanna. She ended up with blood poisoning after both.

She is obviously much older now and she couldn't hack that again.
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September 21st, 2012, 04:28 PM
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nope dont need it...my dr told me "you were born to have babies" LOL
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September 21st, 2012, 10:02 PM
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my mom was old and she died 5 years ago, so I'm going with no
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September 22nd, 2012, 04:27 AM
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Nope. She's not in best of health- she's on a lot of medications (blood pressure, etc) and she's in her 50's. Has back problems, early arthritis. That would be a MESS if she were to be pregnant. So not at all.
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September 22nd, 2012, 06:17 AM
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September 22nd, 2012, 10:24 AM
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I'm going to go against the grain and say yes. She's in great health although past childbearing age, and carried 5 normal pregnancies with easy uncomplicated births. That said, I would never actually ask her...she would have to offer. If I was ever in that situation and if surrogacy was an option.
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September 27th, 2012, 05:17 PM
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Nope. For starters, she doesn't have the equipment anymore and even if she did she had cancer so she wouldn't be able to get pregnant again anyway (why they never had more kids when my mom wanted to), and she is also a REALLY bad alcoholic and just generally unhealthy.
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October 2nd, 2012, 07:20 AM
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No I wouldn't but I so give kiddos to the mother's that are able to do that for their daughters. I saw something a few months back about a mother who carried a baby for her daughter.

My mom's health is not the best.
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