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Well...Im faced with that idea and I can honestly say I have no intention of marrying again after DH passes.
I wont rule it out but its certainly not something Im gonna pursue or worry about. Raising our sons will be all that consumes me for a long time...Im pretty sure. So if love comes along again I wont tell it to shove off but Id certainly be shocked too(took me forever to find DH...I wasnt a dater).
Honestly, I married late in life (I was 38, he was 41). I LOVE being married and I love DH with all my heart and soul. But if he left me or died, I honestly would not mind going back to the quiet and solitary life I had before. I mean, I would raise LO and enjoy parenting him, but I would not be in the market for another husband any time soon, lol.
I've been with my husband since I was 18 and couldn't imagine my life without him. Sure he drives me crazy sometimes and I just want to scream, but honestly he is just agreat guy and I can't see myself having that kind of love and craziness for another man. If somethin happened I don't think I would completely not give love another chance but it would have to be when my kids told me they were ready for that. They come first!
Honestly, I don't think I would, but again, I can't rule it out. I also have been with my husband since I was 18 (him 24) and I can't imagine my life without him. But I'm also realistic and know anything could happen.
No... I'd be too busy taking care of my 4 (or 5 by then) children to even attempt a relationship with someone. I hated planning my own wedding and marriage is really hard sometimes. It takes a lot of work. I don't see me ever getting remarried if DH and I ever got a divorce.