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May 10th, 2013, 06:14 AM
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May 10th, 2013, 08:17 AM
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Forgive me for being a bit snarky but either you accept it or you ditch him.

That is IF this is a real issue and you arent some dude getting his jollies by coming onto this site asking questions(as happened last week in this group and every so often in other groups).

You either love someone as is or you get out. Can you live with him being bisexual or not. These arent hard questions to ask yourself. May not like the answer you give yourself but such is life.
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May 10th, 2013, 10:08 AM
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I Googled and found a similar name and it seems to be a kid who posted this.

In case it's real, I'd recommend premarital counseling, through your church or through a local mental health care provider.
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May 10th, 2013, 10:29 AM
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I think someone is hanging out under a bridge.
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May 11th, 2013, 11:11 AM
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No! Ladies I can assure you I am not a kid or a man lol. I used to post on JM often but obviously this is extremely personal & private.

I just can't stop thinking about what I saw... It is consuming me. And if I bring it up he gets mad. I just don't know what to do, or who to turn to. I don't want to humiliate him but I feel like I need to talk to him but its nearly impossible.
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May 11th, 2013, 12:49 PM
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If this IS real then I would not be with him or I would forget it ever happened. That is a little extreme.
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May 11th, 2013, 04:58 PM
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I stick to what I said before...you either accept its part of who he is and move on and stop thinking and whining over it OR you leave and cut ties and move onward with your life.

Talk to a counselor too, that might give you other ideas.
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May 11th, 2013, 06:20 PM
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