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I posted a little while back that I thought that my dh cheated on me, and I found out that he did. Well, it turns out that the chic that he cheated on me with is crazy. Dh called me not too long ago, and told me that that chic called him and told him that she finally got custody of her kid and she is planning on moving to Spokane. She also told him, no matter what you do, no matter where you are, I will hunt you down. She also asked him if when she moves to Spokane, will he move in with her. Now, this chic sounds crazy enough, she just might do what she has been telling him. She tells him, I know you miss me, and that she loves him, and all this crazy a** sh*t. I don't know what I'm going to do about all this. The only thing that I can think of is to tell dh to get his phone number changed through his work. But I don't think that is going to solve the problem. She sounds like she could become a problem. I wouldn't say she is necessarily a threat in the relationship, because I know that dh doesn't want anything to do with her, but she could threaten our family....and that I will not tolerate. It just sounds like to me, that she is crazy enough to do the things that she said she was going to do. Got any suggestions?
Well if he is seriously not trying to keep in touch with this woman, could he get a restraining order based on her threats? Otherwise, the only thing I can recommend is that he not have any conversations with her. When she calls tell her he is not interested in contact with her and hang up. End of story. I think if he does this enough she won't have any lingering hope and will eventually go away.
Well if he is seriously not trying to keep in touch with this woman, could he get a restraining order based on her threats? Otherwise, the only thing I can recommend is that he not have any conversations with her. When she calls tell her he is not interested in contact with her and hang up. End of story. I think if he does this enough she won't have any lingering hope and will eventually go away.[/b]
I agree! Also keep a record of all her messages and phone calls. This is stalking and she can be arrested for it.
He tells me that he has told her plenty times to stop calling, she just wants to be a b*tch or someting, I don't know. I am probably going to tell him to ask his work to get his number changed. I just don't know how much of a hassle that will be, and I don't know if he will have to pay for it or not. But either way, I'll probably tell him to get it changed. The only problem is, its probably going to be easy for her to find him, if she does what she says she is going to do, because our last name isn't really common, I mean all the people with our last name in this city, are related to us. I could get our number unlisted, but it would be too late to do any good, I think anyways.
I would get all your phone numbers changed and record anything else that she says if she does keep calling. You can use that against her if need be. I would also recommend getting a restraining order if she moves near you.