[dragonfly]

My mom had a huge fight with her boyfriend and they broke up on Saturday. She tried to convince him to come over Saturday night so they could talk things over but he really wanted to go to this party.
Sunday morning my mom calls me and she's saying that it's probably over but even still she kept wondering why he didn't call her that morning and she wanted to talk to him.
Well I just found out that he got into a car accident and died Saturday night.
This whole situation is so f'd up and I'm realizing that I never ever want my hubby to leave the house upset or while we are in a fight. I feel so sad for my mom but this has made me appreciate all the little moments that I have in my life and in my relationship with my hubby and every precious moment with my Charlie bear. Life is too short for fights and staying angry.

[Taz38]

Wow - sorry to hear that. Yeah my Mom always told us don't leave the house or go to bed mad because you might not get that second chance. to this day I will at least try to resolve issues before going to sleep or leaving the house - even if I'm still a little miffed--I always always tell my husband I love him.

[momie2b9-20-11]

Wow - how sad!!! HUGS TO YOU ALL!!! I make it a point to talk everything out before going to bed or before leaving the house - even if it means being late to somewhere or going to bed really late and not getting much sleep. And I ditto about always telling hubby I love him! I never hang up the phone either without telling him I love him even if still upset.

And, we always kiss Kynslee good night. Even if I've just got her to sleep we'll kiss her - I'd rather her wake and have put her to sleep then not kissing her good night and later wishing we had!

I agree - Life is too short!! Try and enjoy every moment. Even though it's not always possible - don't stay mad - it's not worth it! I'll be praying for you and your family!

[Mod-Lady Valkyrie]

I'm so sorry and thinking of you and your mom.

I agree it's so important to tell the people you love "I love you" and hug and kiss them every single day.