Servilia's TTC journal

KennasMama · #**141** January 16th, 2010, 01:57 PM

Ugghh, I've missed so much, between it being the weekend and all the missing posts. But it sounds like you are doing well, and I hope AF is letting up some. I'm sorry your DH is coming up on some long hours. I really hope you can get him to BD a few times. Have you decided whather or not you'll give in to using OPKs this month?

Servilia · #**142** January 16th, 2010, 03:35 PM

HI Jessi! Glad to see you!

I think I will use OPKs, because I'm taking EPO so I want to make sure it doesn't affect things, and if I DO get EWCM, I want to see if it's coming at the right time. I'm also still temping this cycle.
So I had the weirdest dream last night! But funny too! It was FIL chastising DH for not knocking me up yet - FIL says to DH "Don't you know how to make people pregnant?" and then starts doing this movement with his hips! Weird I know but funny as hell too

I told poor DH this morning but I was half asleep so I don't remember his reaction

denalibear · #**143** January 17th, 2010, 05:52 AM

your dream was too funny

Good luck with EPO I saw a huge difference in my CM. Good luck this cycle!!

ashnichole2326 · #**144** January 17th, 2010, 07:32 AM

Haha!! That dream is hilarious!!

BabyLove23 · #**145** January 17th, 2010, 07:57 AM

LMAO!!!! Ohhhh thats hysterical!!

KennasMama · #**146** January 17th, 2010, 11:29 AM

That is the funniest dream. I would die laughing!

chrisam143 · #**147** January 17th, 2010, 09:19 PM

That is too funny!

Hope you had a nice weekend!

♥Ashley♥ · #**148** January 18th, 2010, 07:05 AM

Funny dream!

Servilia · #**149** January 18th, 2010, 09:40 AM

I'm glad I have entertaining dreams!!

Servilia · #**150** January 18th, 2010, 06:29 PM

I don't know if it's the EPO or the extra water I'm drinking but I am definitely noticing more CM. It's not quite EWCM, it's more like watery CM but still, I hope in a few days it will turn into EWCM

On a personal note DH and I had a fight over the weekend. I'm sure it will blow over but I'm pretty upset. I was out on a girls' night out with a friend and his friends happened to be at the same place. For some reason DH's best friend called him up and said something crude with the implication that we're involved intimately. I have NO CLUE why he would do that. We get along and I have never given him any wrong signals EVER... maybe he's jealous or it's wishful thinking? He was probably drunk but he's not the type to make stupid jokes like that. I'm so upset over this because I find myself having to prove that something DIDN'T happen. I would hope that DH would trust me more but he's not convinced

I feel sorry for him because he's very upset that his so-called BF would imply something like that...

amonstersmomma · #**151** January 19th, 2010, 01:05 AM

OMG! What an a-hole of a best friend. I think I definitely would have slapped the crap out of that guy, drunk and disorderly or not! Hope DH talks some sense into him.

chrisam143 · #**152** January 19th, 2010, 01:30 PM

Wow, what a crappy friend is that! I hope things get better with your DH. I am sure he trusts you and its probably just hard for him to believe that his friend would do that to him.

KennasMama · #**153** January 19th, 2010, 02:23 PM

What a BS situation and what a bad friend. It baffles me why people even feel the need to cause problems like it. I'm sorry you are having to deal with that and I hope you and DH can get it smoothed out soon. *hugs*

Servilia · #**154** January 19th, 2010, 04:37 PM

Things are better now... DH was extra nice yesterday, maybe he realized how wrong it was to doubt me.. as for his friend, it is possible he was just saying it innocently and there is an alternate interpretation but it was a very bad choice of words for him to use. DH is giving him the benefit of the doubt but I told him to talk to his friend about it still.
I am very upset that he doubted me and didn't trust me.. he even said that if he gets suspicious again it's over. I want to talk to him about that because it's not fair that unsubstantiated rumours or lies can ruin our relationship and my life like that. I love him so much and I can't stand that he would doubt me like that.

I even wondered to myself whether we should TTC anymore when he doesn't trust me enough.

Anyways I'm on CD 8 now so coming up on my fertile period in a few days (if I O at the usual CD15/16 again). I just hope he won't be working too much and will have time for BD.

dansyl · #**155** January 19th, 2010, 04:43 PM

Guys are stupid. I'm sorry he did that to DH. What a jerk! Oh, and yay for more CM!!!

denalibear · #**156** January 19th, 2010, 05:51 PM

Sorry about your DH's friend...what a total idiot! I hope y'all can work everything out.

I hope your O date comes early this cycle

Servilia · #**157** January 19th, 2010, 06:47 PM

Yeah Stef he was an idiot. which is really surprising because he is normally very respectful. In fact, I always considered him the best gentleman I knew (other than DH) - always nice, respectful, humble - he wouldn't even swear in front of a girl! Anyways, DH is over at his place right now to talk things over and hopefully it was all a big misunderstanding. I just hate that I was put in this position.

I hope O comes early too.. time just flies! I feel like I was just peeing on HPTs and it's almost time to pee on OPKs again! Funny how my life seems to be divided into two week increments...

BabyLove23 · #**158** January 19th, 2010, 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dansyl

Guys are stupid. I'm sorry he did that to DH. What a jerk! Oh, and yay for more CM!!!

LOL! Well said Kara!!

Im sorry you have to deal with this BS!! I hope they clear up the confusion tonight. Its not fair at all.....

Let us know what happens!!!

Servilia · #**159** January 19th, 2010, 07:38 PM

Thanks guys for the support. I will definitely update you!

Hmm looking at my temps, I think I'm going to discard the one from Sunday morning. It is way too high and I think it's because of the drinks the night before and all the bad excitement. I woke up in a sweat that morning!!

chrisam143 · #**160** January 19th, 2010, 11:04 PM

I was going to ask you about that high temp. I had a really high temp on Saturday myself. Though I only had one drink the night before and slept okay. Strange. When are you going to start peeing on an OPK? I think I'm going to wait till CD12, since the earliest I've o'ed was CD14.
Good Night!