I'm not big on recipes.

I tend to just go with it. Usually, if I look at a recipe, I skim it for the technical process and that's it. The exception is baking, but baking is a different beast than cooking.
I do have a few cook books, though. A couple were Christmas gifts that I got two years ago. The one I use the most is actually my textbook from culinary school. It's a big, heavy thing because it's an instructional book and it contains a lot of charts and sciences behind the cooking (recipes actually take up the least space). There's a lot of hows and whys and cooking this meat vs. cooking that meat, cooking with this kind of heat vs. that kind of heat, cooking different vegetables, starches, what makes something well seasoned and what's just someone pouring every jar in their spice cabinet into the pot (or none at all), etc.
I really like a lot of the recipes in that book because they're traditional and they're written using proper technique (which I'm sometimes a bit of a snob about

because I do have a degree in culinary arts and a deep respect for the "old ways"

).