[veji]

I thought I had heard it all --- and this SCARES ME to think my daughter's friends could be doing this. I have seen the boys in my neighborhood and I really doubt they have the maturity to contain themselves.

This child psychologist is asking parents their opinion about CO-ED SLEEPOVERS. Ummmm yeah. For pre-teens. And even teens. Can't it wait until at least college??

It's at parentlab.wishexpress.com but I can't post the link directly, sorry Weird.

I answered the question about my 11 year old girl and they sent me my "parenting horoscope" and it wasn't THAT accurate but it was ok. Honestly, I change day to day, or so my husband tells me

What do you ladies think?

[Spyctre]

I've been to several myself. A couple of times in church trips or lock-ins. The girls and the boys basically stuck to their own groups, but we were all in the same room/gymnasium. My brother and I have had the neighbors over, and the sisters and brothers and my brother and me would all sack out on the living room floor. I've slept on living room floors with another friend and her brothers. The church groups were preteen and teen, the neighbors and friends were all preteen.

Now that I'm an adult, my mind can go all over the place regarding this subject, but I can clearly remember being young and sex during those times wasn't something I even thought about. Even when I learned about sex at 11, I didn't think about doing it with a boy I've known most of my life.

As long as there is supervision, I personally don't mind it. I've just been to so many, and we always had an adult in the house. It was safe. If my child wanted a sleep-over with a boyfriend while his parents were away, I would be against it, but it would have to be something like that.