[americanmom]

I have a 13y son, who has been dating this girl(who is 14) for over 6 months and last night they went to their school dance and there was a photobooth there and they were catch in the booth kissing and touching each other in places they should not.
Do not know what will happen on Monday when they go back to school, but sure I will be getting a call to go to school.
I just need help on how to deal with this issue. Of course I talked to my son explaining to him why we should do these things and all that, but he is just so upset with himself but more about his gf and i am new to the whole teen sex stuff and I do not know where to begin with this....

Plus I am sitting here wondering if I should call the gf mother and apologize to her, but I am scary she'll freak out on me and plus i am clueless as to what to say to her..

I just need help on the matter please anyone

[Kierasmom]

Originally Posted by americanmom

Plus I am sitting here wondering if I should call the gf mother and apologize to her, but I am scary she'll freak out on me and plus i am clueless as to what to say to her..

I just need help on the matter please anyone

Her daughter was doing those things willingly so you have no reason to apologize.

I don't really have any advice. You had a talk with him, and other than supervising them more I don't know what else you could do.

[wefrogy]

IMO, this is the age that they will be curious and acting on the crazy hormones racing through their veins. My advice would just be to talk to him about they kinds of things he will be feeling, the consequences to his actions and what's appropriate and what's not.

I see this post is a few weeks old so curious how things are going

[aalina387]

I think you should talk to both of them.Don't abuse them just be to talk to them about the kinds of things they will be feeling, the consequences to their actions and what's appropriate.

[Micaela]

Originally Posted by aalina387

I think you should talk to both of them.Don't abuse them just be to talk to them about the kinds of things they will be feeling, the consequences to their actions and what's appropriate.

I totally agree with you, communication is really important between parents and children. Thats why it is necessary for the parent to talk to their child about the risks like getting the diseases such HPV, STD, AIDS, HEPA and etc. Having a clear picture about the consequences of being sexually active is very important because curiosity about sex is an inevitable stage in a child's life and parents need to talk about the rules and reinforce it if necessary.