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May 14th, 2013, 05:38 PM
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I am going out on a limb with this. I have viewed other posts and I see how some people get slammed or judged and labled as being a troll . I am really confused about this situation and I talked with a couple of people who have told me to just post it.

I have a 12 year old son,,, I caught him self pleasuring himself a few nights ago . I didn't actually catch him in the act but found his ejaculate in tissues which was on the coffee table. He was down in the den watching TV while I was cookling dinner and he must have fell asleep. When I came down to get him for dinner, I noticed the tissues on the table. I woke him up, and just walked upstairs. I didn't say anything to him as I don't know what to say. I needed to calm down because I was shocked. I was upset that he just left this in the open and I am having anxiety now because of this..

I am not sure if I am over reacting but it made me feel very uncomfortable . I am a single parent and I know it's my responsiblity to talk to him but it's not easy.

Any suggestions

Sara
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May 21st, 2013, 04:47 AM
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If this is true, there is nothing you need to talk to him about, except maybe cleaning up his tissues. This is natural, and so common for his age. Although seeing as how this is the post you introduce yourself in, I'm calling troll.
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May 21st, 2013, 06:47 AM
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Hi Sara and welcome to the board. Personally wouldn't make a big deal about it as it natural for him and his age. I would think he intended to throw the tissue away but fell asleep and didn't get the chance befor you found it.

Have you spoken with him about it since your post?
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