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I am a Single mom have been for a few years well i have two kids a 17 year old son and a 10 year old daughter. Well my son has been with his girlfriend for the better part of 4 years a long time for teenagers and proud of the both of them. Well during the summer and school year i have always trusted my son to watch his little sister. Because i tend to work till about 5-7Pm give or take. Well the other night while he was supposed to be watching his sister i got home earlier then i thought and my daughter was watching TV which is pretty normal so i went upstairs to find my son and walked in on him and his girlfriend having sex. I am not entirely sure what to do about this i have been thinking about telling her parents i haven't talked to my son yet about it yet either, other then grounding him for a while until i deal with this. What should i do? Any advice is welcome.They are both the same age.
I would let it go. They are almost adults and this is a private thing. Believe me, I am a prude. I would be horribly upset. But, if you tell the girl's parents, you just don't know how they will respond. If I were you, I would shut the door. Later, talk to your son about birth control and such. Warn him about what will happen if she gets pregnant. And be done and hope for the best. I am sorry. Not that long ago, I would have said call the parents, flip out, never leave your son alone at home again, etc. But reality is, he is months from being a legal adult. And it sounds like these two have been together a long time and you like her. And if you run and tell her parents, they might ban her from being with him, they might blame you, anything else.