I'm really really torn with the decision!!!

Aidan has never gotten any flu shots before. Last year he was still too young to get it. But this year he's 18mths and is old enough. I thought I had made up my mind to NOT get it, as there are too many uncertainties about the longterm side effects it has. But I then hear so many people are still doing it, making me wonder maybe it's not so bad?!?

I also hear that the swine flu isn't really any different then the regular flu, and that the media has just hyped it too much, making people scared to death about it. So many people have died from other flu's that the media has never reported on.
From what I've heard so far, the people that got it for their kids...they got a really bad fever for days, and can't keep anything down. My sister who had to take her son to the walkin at the hospital at 2am, met another mother there with her child. She told my sister that her daughter just got the shot couple days ago, and she's been having really high fevers. I just can't imagine putting aidan in that position
But being that he's a preemie, should I be doing it????? also with him being in daycare? I've read on the public health website that "the vaccine has not been widely tested on children less then 3yrs of age". So that kinda worries me
Did you get it/not getting it for your LO? what was their side effects from it? Are you not scared of the unknown side effects?