Need to talk to other PCOS Preggos

Celeste1576 · #1 August 16th, 2007, 05:58 AM

I am now 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant.

I am thrilled, don't get me wrong BUT

I got pregnant with my first on NO MEDS and my second with NO MEDS.

This just increases my fear of miscarriage. I am still having a cramping, breast soreness and such but I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I know I should relax and be happy but I feel like this is just all going to fall apart and my son is going to be disappointed that he doesn't get a little brother or sister. (I had to tell him because no one would watch him for my Doctor's appointment.

Do you have a greater risk of miscarrige with PCOS at different stages?

I keep thinking every day is a good day, but today I am very crampy and scared.

Celeste

the scotts · #2 August 17th, 2007, 02:21 PM

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I am now 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant.

I am thrilled, don't get me wrong BUT

I got pregnant with my first on NO MEDS and my second with NO MEDS.

This just increases my fear of miscarriage. I am still having a cramping, breast soreness and such but I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop.

I know I should relax and be happy but I feel like this is just all going to fall apart and my son is going to be disappointed that he doesn't get a little brother or sister. (I had to tell him because no one would watch him for my Doctor's appointment.

Do you have a greater risk of miscarrige with PCOS at different stages?

i hope every thing goes well.don't stress yourself out so much!
I keep thinking every day is a good day, but today I am very crampy and scared.

Celeste[/b]

~FaRRaH~ · #3 August 17th, 2007, 06:08 PM

To be honest I was scared myself, DH is my rock. He wouldnt allow me to think that way for a few reasons. 1. our son! like you we had a successful pregnancy no reason to stress myself 2. Stress would induce things to go wrong if that was my focus.

Good luck to you, and I pray you can enjoy and relax cause this isnt something you want to stress over. It's a gift ENJOY!

marline26 · #4 August 19th, 2007, 05:04 PM

I can't believe it. You sound just like me. I woke up this morning with quite a bit of cramping and thought the same as you. DH is a rock for me, but I am so nervous. I just have to keep reminding myself that the doctor and I did everything we could to make sure that this pregnancy is a healthy one. I didn't use meds with DD, but did with this one. I will be six weeks tomorrow or Tues. I still don't know how to figure those dpo's. LOL Let's just pray for each other and do like FGoumaa said. JUST RELAX! I'm going to start chanting that now. LOL

larachivell · #5 September 21st, 2007, 09:59 AM

I am so glad I just joined and read this.

I found out last week friday that I am pregnant. At first I was over the moon!!! We couldn't believe it since we have been ttc for a while (with PCOS) and I was told I would need clomid but it seems it happened naturally. DH & I were walking on air.

Now I feel the doubt set in, are the cramps normal? What if what if? It bothers me a lot that I can't just trust and let go. I had a "blighted ovum" in January and that also left me a nervous wreck. It is in God's hands now and even though I am DYING to have a baby of my own, His timing must be perfect.

To all the ladies here with PCOS, you are not alone and miracles do happen. I hope we can all learn to relax SOON!!

the scotts · #6 September 21st, 2007, 03:37 PM

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I am so glad I just joined and read this.

I found out last week friday that I am pregnant. At first I was over the moon!!! We couldn't believe it since we have been ttc for a while (with PCOS) and I was told I would need clomid but it seems it happened naturally. DH & I were walking on air.

Now I feel the doubt set in, are the cramps normal? What if what if? It bothers me a lot that I can't just trust and let go. I had a "blighted ovum" in January and that also left me a nervous wreck. It is in God's hands now and even though I am DYING to have a baby of my own, His timing must be perfect.

To all the ladies here with PCOS, you are not alone and miracles do happen. I hope we can all learn to relax SOON!![/b]

and

on your pregnancy!

~FaRRaH~ · #7 September 23rd, 2007, 05:25 AM

Welcome TTC#1 and do your best not to stress it! As you can see from my siggy miracles do happen, Praise God, cause I have 2 of the most joyous reasons to believe!

lilylu · #8 October 1st, 2007, 05:00 AM

Hi, i have pocs and im now 15 weeks pregnant. I had cramping for at least the first 12 weeks,you cant help but worry i know but try not too. I had 3 children before i was diagnosed with pocs and i had the same cramping with all of them, i think peoples bodies react in different ways to being pregnant. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy x

Kalia20 · #9 October 2nd, 2007, 12:53 PM

I didnt know PCOS can increase your chances of a miscarriage.....I just thought it made it very very difficult to get pregnant with no meds. I didnt take any. Im 22 weeks now so I guess that means I'm safe? I stay relaxed about my pregnancy and havent had any bleeding with cramps, so I guess thats normal? I also had constant cramps till about 12 weeks with cramping on and off that was nothing like the first 12 weeks.