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April 5th, 2009, 08:23 PM
SheilaRN's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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It's been awhile since we've heard from everyone. Oldies, Newbies and all you Lurkers.

Stop in and tell us how you are doing.
TTC? Waiting? PG? Done?

Let us know.....
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April 5th, 2009, 08:58 PM
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I'm still lurking a bit. I'm doing ok, I haven't had anymore bad days, just... moments... when I realize how far along I would be or when I see pregnant women. We started ttc again, we're on our first official cycle ttc after our most recent loss.

Patricia, wife to Chris and mom to Dominick with baby boy #2 due this summer! Forever missing my two little angels.

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April 5th, 2009, 09:26 PM
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Im going to TTC again in May/June. I want to have two full cycles. I had a loss in Jan, and became pg in Feb. No cycles inbetween. The dr. said that was not good. So I will wait for two full cycles to go by. More time to heal and get the hormones in check.
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April 6th, 2009, 03:07 AM
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I'm waiting - 12 days post d&c at the moment so as per doctor's orders I'll wait the full cycle before considering ttc.

Thanks to Meganpixel for my beautiful siggie!
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April 6th, 2009, 05:45 AM
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we're officially on hold for TTCing for another 3 weeks after my laparascopy/ectopic removal. unofficially, i don't know if i'll be ready to start trying again at that point. this week we'll be OK to dtd again, but it's been 8 weeks since we've done it at all and i don't know how i feel about that either.

BFP 9/4/09 - Michael John born 5/5/10
ectopic w/tube closure 3/24/09, 8w0d
2nd m/c 12/27/08, 5w2d
1st m/c 10/12/08, 4w6d
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April 6th, 2009, 05:57 AM
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I just got AF on 3/31 so we are just waiting to O to TTC again. This will be our first cycle TTC after our m/c and I am already stressing about it. I want this so bad. I'm already figuring out dates and what me EDD would be if I got my BFP this cycle. I hate doing that to myself.

Thanks for letting me vent!

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April 6th, 2009, 06:00 AM
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We're WTTC. DH wants to get a better job first, but it's driving me nuts because it's so open ended. I would be coming in to my 3rd trimester about now.

I am going on vacation the week of my EDD, so I have a reminder ticker in my siggie of how far along I would have been (except with twins it would have been earlier), I just hope for another pg before July, because I don't know how I'm going to get through it.
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April 6th, 2009, 06:42 AM
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We are waiting to TTC for about 6 more weeks. Because I had an emergency D&C after delivering Ethan, my doctor says that if I got pregnant right now I'd have a 100% chance of miscarrying. But we decided to TTC before the genetic tests are back - even if it is positive, we don't have the money for pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (an expensive type of IVF). We're expecting negative results though.

Thank you Vicki for my awesome siggy!!

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April 6th, 2009, 08:52 AM
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I'm here, kinda.

I'm WTTC.. hard to TTC when you're single
~TTC #1 together 2 years and counting ~

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Matthew&Mark 08/24/2005 9w1d, Mattie Anne 04/07/2008 8w Mel&Dee 01/19/2010 (8 weeks) and 5 chemical pregnancies
Hope 07/22/2012@4w1d, Konnor 11/24/2012@3w6d,"Emmy"1/15/2013@ 3w6d, Ronen 02/10/2013@3w5d, Joy 07/19/2013@3w6d, "Pea" 09/06/2013@ 3w3d

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175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
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D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
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April 6th, 2009, 09:20 AM
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We are still waiting for me to heal (physically) and then plan is to try again in 2 cycles. Our little one would have been due right before Thanksgiving so we both feel that if we are pregnant again through the holidays it will hurt less.

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April 6th, 2009, 09:37 AM
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I'm still here, lurking mostly. We're WTTC until after the wedding.

Thanks to Jaidynsmum for my siggy!
Proud former foster parent to a teen. Waiting on our next call. Proud Aunt to 22.
Proud mommy to 7 angels. Survivor of 4 failed adoptions (5 kids)
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April 6th, 2009, 11:19 AM
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Stop in and tell us how you are doing.
TTC? Waiting? PG? Done?

well having an okay day today, wish I had motivation though. I'll be 2 wks post op tomorrow and have my f/u wednesday morning w/the doc. the pathology report should be in. I'm curious and at the same time dreading what I may or may not learn plus, I want to know the sex if they can tell me but I also know it will bring more pain too.

as far as ttc, dh wants to wait. during the whole process of being dx'ed w/b.o. and missed m/c-dnc time frame, I swore I never wanted to be pg again and now that i'm more open to it. he wants to wait 6 mos to try again. that would give greiving time, time to be good and healthy. time to maybe get answers.

its kinda hard though, I don't mind the waiting til september however, it WILL be hard to know I will NOT be pregnant by the time the edd comes in august, sept, IDK about october.

I'm also a bit irked b/c while he requested we wait, he also would rather *I* be the one to figure out how we'll go about TTA between now and then. I don't think thats fair. it should be another joint decision. and in reality, he could end up doing the exact opposite of what h just said. I am wanting answers though. it tugs at me to ttc.
thats about it, I have my good moments and my bad moments about it. and its still very hard to see pg women and babies out and about.

M/C 6wks 4days Jan09 & 4wks 5days Nov 05, 3/25/09dnc[10wks 3d]Jan/24/2010[11wks baby stopped growing at 7+ wks]
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April 6th, 2009, 12:41 PM
lex1078's Avatar Waiting patiently....
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Lurker here!! That's all I really do. We are TTC this month with a vengeance!! But if it doesn't happen, it's ok.

Good luck to everyone who is TTC!

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April 6th, 2009, 12:50 PM
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i'm here....not ttc at the moment...of course we never really were. dh thinks ttc'ing causing too much stress on a couple and that's when you have problems. eli was conceived with no planning and i was hoping for that to happen again.....unfortunately it hasn't. i've had two chemical pg's and one m/c at 12 weeks with which i had complications and ended up having 2 d&c's, a week apart.....so for now i am still healing physically and emotionally.....idk if/when we will be ttc..........i do want my little girl. just don't know if i will have one here on earth.
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April 6th, 2009, 09:02 PM
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Good to see so many of you stop in and let us know what's going on.
I know there are a lot of Lurkers-dont' be afraid to stop in and post from time to time. We won't bite. Promise
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April 6th, 2009, 09:14 PM
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I'm here! I keep forgetting to post in this thread and right now I'm SO exhausted (we had a hard night last night). Hopefully Patrick will go right back to sleep when I feed him in half an hour or so, so I can go to bed myself!

But in general we're doing good.
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April 7th, 2009, 05:27 AM
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I usually just lurk, but I am here. Having a kind of rough time right now with a EDD and a due date anniversary coming up. We are still TTC, just charting right now. We are going to start using medical assistance again in June or July.

Thanks to Jaidynsmum for my new siggy!

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April 7th, 2009, 09:29 AM
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We will start TTC after AF this month. (2 cycles since our loss)
I am extremely busy lately and lurk once every few days... but still here!!
Thank you Ashypoo for my wonderful signature! (and Kiliki and Bam for also making me one which I will change next week!)
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Our Trisomy 18 baby boy 2/10/2009 @20.1 weeks
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April 7th, 2009, 09:38 AM
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We're waiting until DH comes home in the fall. I'm not sure if we'll TTC right away but I think we will.
Amy, Marine Wife to Mike {2.16.06} Mommy to Preston {6.23.10} and our little bean {2.20.12}
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April 7th, 2009, 11:04 AM
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It's good to hear from everyone!

Heather - I'm sorry that you have to be here, but I'm glad that you found this forum. The support and understanding here have helped me so much. *HUGS*

Lacy - I'll be thinking about you tomorrow, hon. *HUGS*

I'm ok, I guess. Still WTTC.

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