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May 26th, 2009, 12:06 PM
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1. Where were you when you found out you weren't going to get to take a baby home? Who was there with you?

2. Did you do anything special this weekend?
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May 26th, 2009, 12:10 PM
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1. Where were you when you found out you weren't going to get to take a baby home? Who was there with you?

I was in the ultrasound room, alone. I had very very light spotting at home and they just wanted to do a quick ultrasound to put my mind at ease before DH and I headed out of town for a trip we were taking. (I had spotted at 7 weeks and everything was fine.. here I was almost 12 weeks so they really didn't think there would be an issue). I had to hear those horrific words "I'm so sorry but there is no heart beat". I was alone until I got home and DH met me there... I remember sitting on the couch crying for hours and hours.
2. Did you do anything special this weekend?

We went to the In-laws for a cook out, went and saw Night at the Museum but that was about it
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May 26th, 2009, 02:31 PM
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1. I was in the high-res u/s room at the hospital. My husband, my wonderful OB, and a medical resident were with us. We knew something was wrong after my level 1 u/s the night before at the doctor's office, but we had no idea we were going to lose him. I remember saying "So you're telling me that we are going to lose this baby?" And she said yes.

2. I was dogsitting my sister's puggle for the third weekend in a row (we have our own pug, they are buddies now). I also went to a BBQ with DH and friends and then one at my sister's place.
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May 26th, 2009, 03:15 PM
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1. Where were you when you found out you weren't going to get to take a baby home? Who was there with you?
After our U/S when we saw the specialist. They told us even if she were to survive L & D she would need to stay in the hospital....if she made it. Deep down I knew then we wouldn't be bringing a baby home.

2. Did you do anything special this weekend?
We spent time with family. Dh's family invited us to join them a graveside mass but we didn't go. I took a few minutes to stop and think of my sweet Annika.
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May 26th, 2009, 08:25 PM
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I was in the u/s room and my DH was with me. I saw my little baby on the screen with no h/b going on the monitor and just knew it was over. The u/s could not tell us, just told us the baby measured 8w0d and the baby should of been 9.5wks. I was in shock and DH had no clue what was happening. The tech left the room and I just stood there saying the baby has no heartbeat, he died.

We went to our new summer home and had a huge get together with most of my family. It was a blast, wish it was another 3 day weekend.
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