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May 28th, 2009, 03:36 PM
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Unfortunately this morning I went to the ER with bleeding and got my worst fear confirmed... I lost my little bean... I am taking it pretty hard so some friends suggested this board and said you ladies are great and really helped..... I know it will get better.. I will never forget but it will get better,,, MY name is Lindsey DH is Chris and we have one son Elijah...
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May 28th, 2009, 04:47 PM
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Oh Lindsey, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sorry you have to be here but glad you found us. We understand everything you are going through - about to go through. I wish there was something I could do to make your pain easier but I can only offer support. Please feel free to vent away... It helps a little. There is nothing that you can say that we have not felt and said before. We are here for you.

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May 28th, 2009, 06:54 PM
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I"m so sorry for your loss. I'm sad to see more January 2010 mommies here. I'm going through the same thing your going through. If you want to talk then shoot me an email. My email is laydii_cintah@yahoo.com.
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May 28th, 2009, 07:28 PM
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I said this in the TTC forum, but again I am so sorry sweety! Time will make heal you phsyically and you will one day be at a point where you won't cry as much... please know we are here if you need to talk.
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May 28th, 2009, 07:52 PM
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Welcome Lindsey, Im so sorry you have to be hear. I can relate to your pain, as all of us here can. This being your only loss, Im sure there are so many questions you might have. Please talk about that here, along with the emotions that come with it. We will try and help you, and if anything, just be here to understand your pain.
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May 29th, 2009, 01:41 AM
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A sad welcome to you. I hope you will find this board of comfort - the ladies here are very supportive.

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May 29th, 2009, 07:08 AM
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Hey ladies.. Thanks for the welcomes,and telling me to be open.. I am doing better today but you are right I do have tons of questions, and I just don't understand why these things happen.. I am trying to wear a brave face today, but inside I am not brave yet.. I dont' understand why some people who don't even want thier child go on to have great pregnancies and then when someone like all of us want it so bad we loose it and have to go through this... It is very painful.. I try not to be angry at God cause I know He does things for a reason.. SO like the song by casting crowns says I will praise Him in this storm... NO matter how much I hurt right now..
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May 29th, 2009, 07:30 AM
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I'm so sorry you are here also. I've been through this before, but it doesn't get easier each time, I can tell you. Time does heal your wounds though. I'm so sorry for your loss. You're right about how unfair it is for someone who doesn't want a child can have it and those that desperately want a child, have this crap happen to them.
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May 29th, 2009, 10:24 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Your friends were right in saying that this is a very supportive group of ladies.
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May 29th, 2009, 01:44 PM
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Hey ladies.. Thanks for the welcomes,and telling me to be open.. I am doing better today but you are right I do have tons of questions, and I just don't understand why these things happen.. I am trying to wear a brave face today, but inside I am not brave yet.. I dont' understand why some people who don't even want thier child go on to have great pregnancies and then when someone like all of us want it so bad we loose it and have to go through this... It is very painful.. I try not to be angry at God cause I know He does things for a reason.. SO like the song by casting crowns says I will praise Him in this storm... NO matter how much I hurt right now..
Oh Lindsay. I'm so sorry sweetie. I'm sorry that you have to come here. I couldn't have said that bolded bit better myself.

As for being angry at God...I promise that He can handle it. I was angry at God for a while too. I trusted He had His reasons to take Cora, but I was still angry about it.

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May 29th, 2009, 04:07 PM
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So sorry you are here but these are wonderful ladies. I have found comfort here and people to talk to which has helped alot. I hope you are able to find the same comfort and move through the process to the other side.
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May 29th, 2009, 04:12 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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