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June 17th, 2009, 08:10 AM
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Ughhh...I already hate today. It is rainy and nasty and cold outside. And my apartment complex is evil and horrible. I have been waiting for over a week for them to fix my fire alarm. That is a safety feature! And I decided it would be okay to go back and look at my old DDC and they are all starting to have their babies and I'm excited for them, but so sad that I don't get to be there too. And it seems like every one around me today is pregnant and talking loudly about it (although, that's probably just because I'm already over sensitive). And I cut my mouth on a piece of bread. Today is just not my day.
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June 17th, 2009, 09:01 AM
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Can you call the fire department and tell them? When we lived in an apartment we found out that most of the fire alarms didn't work and we couldn't get the landlord to do anything about it so we called the fire department and they dealt with the landlord. Send your weather here, we need rain. I try so hard not to go into my old ddc and then when I can't hold myself back I look and so many of them are complaining... I wouldn't complain if I was there.
I hope your day gets better.
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June 17th, 2009, 09:11 AM
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I'm sorry honey. The rain just means that the world is crying with you, think of it that way.


And I agree with calling the fire department.

I guess I'm glad I didn't find JM until after I lost Cora. It means I don't have a DDC/PR to go lurk in. I'd probably lurk more often on the May '06 PR if they didn't have their photo forum password protected.

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June 17th, 2009, 11:46 AM
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Yeah, the upside of being treated horribly by some of the girls in my old (non-JM) online pregnancy group is that I have NO desire to go back. Although I do keep up with several of the girls through Facebook, which might suck when I hit my EDD next month.
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June 17th, 2009, 03:47 PM
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I had a yahoo group and left immediately so I don't know how any of them are doing. I think that kind of helps. Except I see all the pregnant ladies at daycare or hear other women complaining like you ladies and I am like uh what about me. I would give anything to be miserably uncomfortable and waddling right now. I have come to realize how precious my pregnancies and babies are and the next time I will be so much more religious about doing what I am supposed to, like resting. I am sorry you are having such a hard day, I know how those are.
I agree about the fire department thing, I would call. I hope your day got/gets better and that tomorrow is even better than today.
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June 17th, 2009, 05:11 PM
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Aw, thanks ladies! You made me feel so much better
The girls in my old DDC were/are so fantastic that it's hard NOT to go back. I just have to prepare myself better next time.
And thank you so much for the fire department idea. I never thought about that.
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HUGS, HUGS and more HUGS Amy!! I hate bad days. If it makes you feel any better I cut my mouth on bread too.
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June 20th, 2009, 01:09 PM
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HUGS, HUGS and more HUGS Amy!! I hate bad days. If it makes you feel any better I cut my mouth on bread too.
Thanks Sheila!
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HUGS... I never went back to my DDC..... After I annouced I lost my heartbeat.... a comment was made... by someone.. that they didn't want to hear about the losses.. so I felt it better... for them and me if I stayed away.. I think it was a good choice, I'm having a hard enough time dealing with pregnant women around me...
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June 21st, 2009, 08:06 PM
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HUGS... I never went back to my DDC..... After I annouced I lost my heartbeat.... a comment was made... by someone.. that they didn't want to hear about the losses.. so I felt it better... for them and me if I stayed away.. I think it was a good choice, I'm having a hard enough time dealing with pregnant women around me...
That makes me so angry!!! Oh, I'm sorry that losses make you feel bad chica! Never mind the girl who is GOING THROUGH IT, who has to LIVE WITH IT. So we made you need to step away from the computer for a second until you feel better, I'm sorry, did we ruin your hour? Wish that I could just take and hour and then feel better about it.

Gah. Excuse my bitter sarcasm.
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June 22nd, 2009, 09:13 AM
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That makes me so angry!!! Oh, I'm sorry that losses make you feel bad chica! Never mind the girl who is GOING THROUGH IT, who has to LIVE WITH IT. So we made you need to step away from the computer for a second until you feel better, I'm sorry, did we ruin your hour? Wish that I could just take and hour and then feel better about it.

Gah. Excuse my bitter sarcasm.
Bitter sarcasm was extremely called for. I have to completely agree with you. I can't believe someone would make a comment like that. Completely heartless!
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