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June 18th, 2009, 01:24 PM
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I just thought I would let you all know that we had the baby at midnight on Monday night. It was horrible. I was rushed to the hospital due to hemmorage. The placenta actually was stuck in my cervix which caused the hemmorage. I almost passed out before I got a room. It was just a horrible experience. There was tons of blood and huge clots that Dr had to get out.

I am just so emotional. We buried the baby yesterday in our backyard. It was very hard to see a tiny baby come out of you and there is nothing you can do to save it. Its like nothing I have ever seen. It looked like a tiny sculpture.

I am just so sad. I just dont think I can go through another pregnancy because I get so so sick and have to stay in bed for 6 plus weeks. Its just life altering. I really wanted this baby. I keep thinking about adoption but have heard its nearly impossible to adopt an infant. I am just so heartbroken and feel I will never have another baby.
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June 18th, 2009, 02:48 PM
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Oh honey, I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of that! I'm sorry that you are feeling the way you are. Take your time to grieve and heal. After I delivered Cora I couldn't imagine ever being pregnant again (I was severely sick too, the whole time) but as went on I was more and more okay with the idea. Not saying that you need to feel like you have to get to the point of being okay with it, but it is okay if you aren't right now.

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June 18th, 2009, 03:37 PM
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I am so sorry for what you have been through.
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June 19th, 2009, 08:28 AM
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Thank you.
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June 19th, 2009, 08:21 PM
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I just wanted to say how very sorry Iam for your loss. It not right that we have to go through this, and I pray that your future still holds the possiblity of a baby. Just remember, every pregnancy is different, and so are the symptoms. Hopefully God will bless you with a healthy pregnancy. But please take all the time you need to go through this grieving process. We are here for you, when it seems no one else understands......
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June 20th, 2009, 05:59 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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June 20th, 2009, 01:42 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss and all you have been through.
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June 21st, 2009, 10:44 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss and what you had to go through... HUGS.... HUGS... HUGS
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June 21st, 2009, 04:28 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, hon, and that you had to go through such a horrible experience. You and your family are in my T&P.
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