[mammameg]

Hey ladies, heres my story so far. I went in for a US at 8 weeks and there was a sac measuring 6 weeks but no baby and no fetal pole. They did a transvaginal and reg ultrasound that day. I had to go for 3 blood test and return to my doctor that next monday. So I go Monday , and the doc says its not looking good. My numbers for all 3 test (3 test in 5 days) were all in the 4,000 only going up a tinny tiny bit. So the doctor sets me up for another scan , the techs report says there was a "structure" in my uterus but no fetal pole, heartbeat , or yolk sac. Now at this point I am 9 weeks 4 days. I have had no spotting or cramping. I have had sore BBs this whole time, some m/s that wasn't bad , just occasional nausea and even less actual throwing up. I have been super tired and have gain 15 lbs ( I didn't gain early with either of my other pregnancies). I feel pregnant. I do. But I know those numbers are super super low, to low. So I know in my head that this pregnancy is not viable. But I really am just so confused. When I go back on Monday we will discuss my options. I really thought my body would have started doing something. My heart keeps telling me, maybe there is a chance the dr were wrong. But my brain knows they aren't. So can anyone tell me if I should just keep waiting for my body to start? How long could that take? I want to get this over with, Im really considering the D&C . Thanks for listening

Megan (25) wife to DH Shawn (31) , Mom to Lilly-Ann (6) and Benjamin (22 months)

[Belita]

I'm so, so sorry you're going through this.

I know lots of women opt for the D&C to get the physical part over with so they can move on to the emotional healing. You can still have pregnancy symptoms even if the pregnancy isn't viable. I was getting new symptoms as I was starting to miscarry.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I am so sorry your going through this. As Roybn said some women opt for the D&C and some wait it out. Sometimes your body just doesn't recognize what is going on. With my first loss I had the D&C and honestly for me it was better so that I could start healing emotionally. We are here for you.

[mammameg]

Thank you ladies, I really appreciate it. I have started cramping alittle but then it goes away. And its mostly on my left side. Also has either of you ladies heard about pregnancy symptoms getting worse before a miscarriage starts. I only found one thing about it. But I tell ya my bbs have been overly sore since yesterday morning and I have been horribly nauseas . I read it one article ( i could only find the one) that symptoms may increase as things are breaking down and more hormones are released into your blood stream. Does this sound right to you guys?

[Belita]

That happened to me. My nausea kicked in badly the morning before I lost the baby.

[mammameg]

Thank you. Thats good to know, so I'm not sitting over here thinking im making stuff up . I was starting to think I was in denial, even though I thought I had accepted it. I just hope something happens. Hope my body does something.

[Belita]

I felt the same way. "I can't be losing the baby if I'm gaining symptoms, right?" Wrong

[bug, boo, n boogers mom]

Hugs, I am so sorry. I didn't have any symptoms before I lost the baby. I opted for the D&C.

[EverydayJoy]

How are you doing now? Can you update pls...
Hope you are all right