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June 21st, 2012, 09:11 AM
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It seems like every new day brings bad news over in my DDC. My heart breaks just reading the newest updates and I wish there was something I could do for everyone who has lost their babies over there and, I know it's selfish to say this but seeing all the posts about preterm labor scares me. I'm still two weeks from "viability" but even that is no guarantee. I know worrying does no good but I am scared and worried and ... I don't know what I would do if I lost him at this point. He wasn't moving much over the weekend and the beginning of this week and it scared me so much that I spent hours just sitting and trying to feel him move. When he finally did, it was down really low and not very hard - which is probably why I didn't feel him when I was moving around over the weekend. Last night I almost cried in joy when I felt a nice, hard kick to my side.

I thought I was past the fear once I was passed my point of loss with Angel but I guess it never really goes away and I wish all these October babies would stop coming early. I wish there was something I could do to comfort everyone who has lost their babies recently but I don't even know how to get rid of my own fear.
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June 21st, 2012, 11:20 AM
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I hear the latest one was a troll?

As disappointed as I was not to make it into the October DDC, I have honestly felt glad not to be a part of that DDC. We had a lot of losses in my DDC, but so far we haven't had any after the first trimester (just one who was a troll). It is so scary and I'd probably feel like taking a step back if I were in your position. I hope the rest of the ladies in your DDC have nice full-term, healthy babies.
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June 21st, 2012, 05:56 PM
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Ditto what Robyn said. What is a troll?
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June 21st, 2012, 06:05 PM
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a troll is someone who comes to a forum and makes up their story.
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June 21st, 2012, 08:33 PM
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I'm not aware of any trolls on the October DDC but, I some how always miss when something like that happens. The last babies lost in our DDC were 7BearCubs' twin boys, born at 24 weeks.
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June 22nd, 2012, 07:42 AM
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Yes, that's who I heard the troll was. People are thinking she's the troll we just had in my DDC who had posted about losing twins. I don't understand it.

Either way it's heartbreaking. If it's real and people are assuming this person is a troll then it is sad for them that they are not getting the support they need. Also, it means this person is suffering a truly devastating situation.

If it's a troll, then it's heartbreaking that someone makes up these sorts of stories.

There is just no good in a situation like this.
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June 26th, 2012, 05:29 AM
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I have been told about the oct EDD.

It makes me not want to even join one when an IF my time comes around again.

I feel for every one who have lost a baby and my heart breaks when I see yet another today in what was my edd.

I thinkwe had a troll on ours too, they are pathetic excuses of humans.
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