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So I'm having a hard time with my loss again. It's strange - I felt 'ok' about things for a while, but the last few days have just been so hard again. I can't stop thinking that I should be 15 weeks along, should be happily sharing my news with everyone, should have a baby bump. Instead I'm back to temping and charting and timed BDing and being frustrated that my OPKs aren't positive. It doesn't seem fair. I think it's compounded with the fact that I'm coming up on my 1 year TTC anniversary.
Anyways, just a bad day. Wanted to rant somewhere and I know you ladies won't mind. Thanks for listening.
I completely understand where you are coming from Katie! Most of my days haven't been that great lately, but there are some days that hit me really hard and worse than others. I had one of those yesterday, I just broke down crying at my desk and went to the bathroom to let it all out. My coworkers propbably think I am a nutcase b/c they don't know of the pregnancy/loss... but oh well. It is not fair and I haven't had anybody say anything to me that's made me feel any better, so I doubt I will be able to do so for you, but just know you are not suffering alone. Hoping are babies are in heaven playing together!!
Angel Baby #1 - 12/29/2003 (9 weeks, lost baby at 6-7 weeks)
Angel Baby #2 - 7/10/2012 (11 weeks 5 days, lost baby at 6 weeks 1 day)
We totally understand hun. I think it's normal to have your good days and bad days. And it's always hard when your having a milestone and remembering where you should be. I really hope you get a sticky BFP soon hun.
My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11 Expecting my baby boy May 9th Emergency cerclage put in 12/24