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August 11th, 2012, 05:20 AM
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To go into my DDC and see all the stuff I'm missing and should be going through. Yet I can't stop going in there was so used to going there and now I feel lost and alone Never expected this to be as hard as it is.
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August 11th, 2012, 08:00 AM
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I was just thinking this. I go in there all the time and torture myself. I posted often and really felt a connection with all those girls I'm finding it hard to move on. I was actually thinking of trying to move to the fitness board as that is something I'm interested in and I need to post somewhere throw my efforts into something else. Its so hard to see everyone moving forward when I dont get to.
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August 11th, 2012, 08:20 AM
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Yes! I'm feeling this exact same way. I was a regular and posted everyday, so its really tough to not have anywhere else to go.
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August 11th, 2012, 12:23 PM
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I know how you feel. I was with the ladies in October DDC for so long. Now I just go back and sort of check up on them. I met some great people in my DDC and without them I wouldn't be where I am now.
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August 11th, 2012, 08:20 PM
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Today was the first day I didnt go into my DDC. I posted an intro in the fitness board and posted in here and I feel good about that. I will check back in on my DDC from time to time but I'm going to try and stay away for a little while till it hurts less. I removed it from my favourites as well.
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August 11th, 2012, 10:58 PM
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That's really good for you! Wish there was somewhere else I could fit in to fill that void!
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August 13th, 2012, 06:03 AM
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Going back to a DDC was something I never allowed myself to do. I knew the pain it would cause me so I just didn't. But I know what you mean about wanting to.
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August 14th, 2012, 07:35 PM
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I have clicked on my old DDC several times by accident when I realize I can't post there any more. I agree; It is lonely. I wonder if it would be better to have a sub-forum of each DDC (but not that you have to visit the normal DDC to get there!) where all those who are miscarrying from that DDC can at least be together. I think it would be less lonely and people would be more likely to stick around for a bit and support each other. And besides, they'd be going through their miscarriages at about the same stage of pregnancy, so...

But anyway, I know it's hard, and it's a strange feeling, on top of all the other emotions to feel left out.
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