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October 15th, 2012, 11:52 AM
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I have been with my girlfriend about two months now. Almost a month ago she found out she was pregnant. This was an unplanned pregnancy and I am the father. We found out that we had a miss carriage. We are both in our late 20's. Up to the point when we found out she was pregnant the relationship was great and amazing. We both love each other very much. Some of the issues are that she has two kids already, 3yr and a 1 1/2 yr old. She separated from her husband along time ago and is in the process and finalizing her divorce. I know she has a lot more on her plate than me. We both work together. . Im totally in love with her, my family knows what is going on and supports both of us. I love her two kids very much. We do not currently live together, since we have only been together about two months. . I want to be there for her, but dont know what to do??? I have told her many times I love her and am there for her. I told her just let me know what you need. I support her 100%. Just looking for some advice or help. I dont know what to do for her and it is hard being ignored. Looking for advice or anything,Help, Please! Thanks
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October 15th, 2012, 12:43 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. There really is no right answer on what to do. You just have to follow her lead. Let her know you're there and listen if she wants to talk. Even though it may feel she is ignoring you, you need to remember that she may just need to be alone sometimes. Everyone deals with grief differently.
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October 15th, 2012, 04:04 PM
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I thinks she wants to break up. She said its not fair for me, because she is not emotionally there. Just being around her is enough for me, I do not need more. I just don't know if breaking up is the right thing to do or what to do. Any suggestions? Thanks
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October 15th, 2012, 05:42 PM
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Just be honest and talk to her. That's not much, but it's the only suggestion I have for you.
The only way to work through any relationship problem is open and honest communication.
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