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Is this possible? I have hard time with hearing about new family being pregnant I get severly down and want to cry. I cry alot infact. I dont want to fel like this. We TTC for a year after. Nothing, I am trying to get past it but its hard I thought I let it go after it happened. I have to wait who knows how long to even try again.. anyone have any suggestions or anything.
It was also mothers day and had to have a D and C.
I am so very sorry for all that you have been through. Everything you experienced was traumatic and that can be paralyzing. Have you gone to someone for grief counseling? I don't know if you ever really "let it go", but just having an outlet for those emotions can be helpful. Something like this can be very isolating, and it is hard to let people know that we are hurting, even those nearest and dearest to us (this is very true for me).
As far as trying again, have you seen a specialist for conceiving? If you can get plan in place, it may make you feel a little more in control.
Please know you are not alone, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take care,