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April 19th, 2013, 07:06 AM
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Every day is still a tough day. I still think about our LO all day, and wrestle with whether or not to start TTC or wait until we've met with the OB - why meet with the OB first? I have no idea. My body still feels off. Sleepless nights, migraines, exhaustion and alot of tears.

First AF was hard. Abdominal pain before and after. And alot of tears.

I guess it was unrealistic of me to think that once AF showed, I'd feel better about things, like life was back to normal. But it doesn't ever get back to normal does it? There's always that hole, that gap in everything.
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April 19th, 2013, 01:49 PM
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I'm so sorry you are feeling this way Sending you lots of hugs!!!
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April 22nd, 2013, 05:29 AM
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Sending hugs too honey. Have you thought about talking to a counselor or therapist? It might help...
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April 22nd, 2013, 12:24 PM
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I have thought about it. It wouldn't be the first time I used their services. I have been using the exercises I learned the last time I went through counseling when I had severe medical issues and needed help getting through them. They help during the day. The nights are a little better since I'm so exhausted now, I fall asleep right away.

DH is doing a little better is past weekend and not up all night, so I'm not waking up every few hours; so I'm getting more hours of sleep. That really helps. Now if only I would O.....
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