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oh sweetie, don't be hard on yourself.
you may have forgotten the day, but it does not mean you forgot Ali....sometimes days just seem to get away from us, especially when we are taking care of our little miracles.
I completly agree with the others.. I was so busy enjoying my new little bundle I also forgot about Septmeber 4th when we said good bye last year. But Not a day goes buy that I think Of my little one ... Please do not be hard on yourself
Of course I think of Ali all the time, and I remember a conversation about her with some friends of mine yesterday, but I just didn't remember the significance of the day. It makes me wonder if I could ever forget Makenna's birthday or other important things. I've never forgotten important dates for dh and I, so I don't know how this one slipped by me without detection.
I had eva on oct 18th.. and a few days later on oct 23rd i had fully planned on taking eva out to the little memorial grave we have for our lost baby and i completely forgot until the day after as well.. and i also felt really bad.. It had been so important to me to have Eva before the one year date of our loss and i did, and then i completely forgot to even have her visit her big brother or sister on that day..
I just know that i still think about that little angel baby all the time.. but like you, just missed the significance of a particular day.. And its ok!
~Em, Married to Matt since 7/3/04. Mommy to Layla 3/29/06, Eva 10/18/08, Zeke 2/4/11 and Jonah 7/28/13
Hugs Sacha...Dee said it just right....you may have forgotten the day, but it does not mean you forgot Ali. Don't feel guilty about it...you are a good mamma, and your angel Ali feels your love everyday. You know and she knows that she is missed and forever loved.