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November 3rd, 2009, 06:41 AM
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I just realized that yesterday was 2 years since I m/c'd Ali at just over 12w. I didn't remember it at all yesterday. What's wrong with me?
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:27 AM
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oh sweetie, don't be hard on yourself.
you may have forgotten the day, but it does not mean you forgot Ali....sometimes days just seem to get away from us, especially when we are taking care of our little miracles.
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November 3rd, 2009, 08:12 AM
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I agree with Dee,just because you forgot the day does not mean that you forgot about Ali, I bet you think about Ali all the time.
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November 3rd, 2009, 08:56 AM
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It's so hard when we want to mother our angel babies in a real tangible way and we can't. Like the other said, forgetting what day it was doesn't mean you don't love and miss Ali.

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November 3rd, 2009, 10:55 AM
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I completly agree with the others.. I was so busy enjoying my new little bundle I also forgot about Septmeber 4th when we said good bye last year. But Not a day goes buy that I think Of my little one ... Please do not be hard on yourself
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November 3rd, 2009, 11:31 AM
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Thanks ladies.
Of course I think of Ali all the time, and I remember a conversation about her with some friends of mine yesterday, but I just didn't remember the significance of the day. It makes me wonder if I could ever forget Makenna's birthday or other important things. I've never forgotten important dates for dh and I, so I don't know how this one slipped by me without detection.
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November 4th, 2009, 08:18 AM
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its ok..

I had eva on oct 18th.. and a few days later on oct 23rd i had fully planned on taking eva out to the little memorial grave we have for our lost baby and i completely forgot until the day after as well.. and i also felt really bad.. It had been so important to me to have Eva before the one year date of our loss and i did, and then i completely forgot to even have her visit her big brother or sister on that day..

I just know that i still think about that little angel baby all the time.. but like you, just missed the significance of a particular day.. And its ok!

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November 4th, 2009, 10:23 AM
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Hugs Sacha...Dee said it just right....you may have forgotten the day, but it does not mean you forgot Ali. Don't feel guilty about it...you are a good mamma, and your angel Ali feels your love everyday. You know and she knows that she is missed and forever loved.
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November 5th, 2009, 10:06 AM
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I can't tell you how many times over the last 14 years I have forgotten one date loss or another but I have never forgotten my babies, and you just forgot the DATE not the events.
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