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June 22nd, 2010, 05:40 PM
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Just wanted to check in with you ladies. I seem to be having a hard time coming to the site these days. After my loss My Dh says we are done.. HAHA we thought we were done before my last pregnancy. But now I am just not sure.. I am giving it time to see if it is because I am feeling like I am missing something not being pregnant (because of my loss) or I really want another baby.. I have days that I want to be pregnant and then there are days that I am so thankful that I am not..

To top it off .I have 3 cousins that were due the same month I would have been (December) and now My worthless ex and his wife are expecting another child. I just do not understand why god gives people like him babies and not to someone like me and Dh ..

But anyways doing ok .Conner just had his 4th birthday and we are having his party this coming Sunday and Kaetlin my baby girl is turning 1 next month.. time is just flying by...

Hope is all well with everyone and I hope to be back on soon
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June 23rd, 2010, 03:56 AM
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Hugs Mary...I have been thinking about you. It is so hard to see and hear about other pregnancy's when you have just had a loss. It is completely unfair! We are here for you, and if you do decide to TTC again, we will be here cheering you on.

Let us know how Conner and Kaetlin's birthday's go. I can't beleive she is almost 1!!
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June 23rd, 2010, 04:26 AM
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I have been thinking of you alot hun. Know that you are always remembered here and we're here when you are ready. I know it's not easy.

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June 23rd, 2010, 07:54 AM
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Hey, I been wondering about you, since I read about your loss
HUGS, we are all here for you.
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June 24th, 2010, 07:07 AM
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I'm glad you checked in Mary. I don't think you and DH should rush to a decision on whether you are done....just give it some time. I'm sorry you had to find out about so many pregnancies since your loss. We are always here for you. Please make sure to update us with pics of your kiddo's birthdays!!
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June 24th, 2010, 07:41 AM
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Thanks ladies.. Dh and I are talking tonight.. I am just not sure I REALLy want another baby if you know what I mean. I keep going back and forth... I think right now i am waiting.. it is just to soon to decide ..I just keep thinking of the baby that I just lost and what he looked liked.
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June 27th, 2010, 11:00 AM
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I am so sorry you are having such a rough time making this decision. I think it's a great idea to wait and see how you feel after greiving this loss. It's such a hard decision to make. *HUGS*
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