You gals helped make my day. I am 10 DPO and had a ton of EWCM. It's too early for me for AF, but the depression and discouragement hit hard. Reading this at least keeps me optimistic, although now, my head's not in the clouds with hope, just a real sense of promise.
I'll find out this weekend.
(oh, I'm lurking from the Jan 08
PR, with this exact question in mind!)