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June 23rd, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Hello everyone!! I am so sorry I haven't posted. I have dial up at home and JM just doesn't work with dial up well. I am working this summer at my husbands work so I have high speed tell August anyways.

As some of you know I am sad to say we lost Jakob Feb 24th 2009. We think it was due to a seizer. He of course had Joubert Syndrome as well. He was doing so well before that happened. We had found a residential speical needs school for him. He was finally eating pureed food and starting to better in social settings. He came home at least twice a month and he came home for longer times on holidays. He was only there 7 months though when he died. I miss him so badly and wish I could have him back.

Ava is doing very well. She is 21 months old and is a doll. She is very tall for her age and everything she is about 2.5 normally. She talks a lot and loves to swim and play outside.

Also I have some other news. I had my tubes tied when I had Ava, well I have been having problems because of it ever since. Things seem to be getting worse each month so I am getting a reversal done August 7th. I am also hoping we can try again for another baby. We really aren't sure yet if we will but we are talking about it.

I started college last year and start up again in August. I am not sure when I will finish but when I do I will be a physical therapist assistant.

I hope your all doing well and I wanted to say I missed you all.

Oh and to see pics go to the kids site:

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June 23rd, 2009, 04:26 PM
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Welcome back! I am so sorry to hear about your little Jakob. *BIG HUGS* I hope all goes well with your tubal reversal.

Also, good luck with school! Feel free to pop in on Student Mommies too.
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July 3rd, 2009, 03:53 AM
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Jess! I am not sure you got my email. I tried to write when I read you lost Jakob. I am so sorry. I am glad to know that Ava is doing well and glad to see you pop in to update us. I have thought of you too many times to count. I haven't been too much recently as i have had my hands full with things at home...but I think that will start to settle out here soon. My niece came to live with us not too long after Jonah was born & just graduated...so if we can get her party done (July 25th) I can quit being a crazy woman. I am not sure I WILL quit...but I can.
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July 8th, 2009, 08:50 PM
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Jessica! It's sooooo good to hear from you. I was shocked and sad to hear of Jacob's passing. I'm so sorry. GL with the tubal reversal. Ava's a darling!
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July 9th, 2009, 10:22 AM
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thanks ladies!
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