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June 6th, 2008, 08:31 PM
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I got a address update from Lainey's mom yesterday and in the e-mail it said

The big news Lainey is going to be a big siter...we are expecting a baby girl at the end of july.

She included a picture of the three of them infront of there new home they just had built and she looks pregnant. I was told that she couldn't have kids and that is one of the reasons I chose them to be Lainey's parents.

I really don't know what to feel. While I am really happy for them and glad that Lainey will be a big sister I feel kind of betrayed.

Sorry, I just had to tell someone that and you ladies (Melissa and Jen) are the best people that I can talk to.
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June 6th, 2008, 09:40 PM
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Wow that is a bombshell. Are you going to ask them about it? Feel free to PM me anytime...I can even give you my phone number if you need to talk.
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June 7th, 2008, 11:10 AM
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Woah. That is a hard one. I am not really sure how I'd react.

While I would be happy for their miracle.. I would be hurt as well. I would probably feel betrayed too.... I would congratulate them and try not to step any boundaries.... I mean, not to sound harsh, but there is nothing that can be done at this point. What's done is done. I would think they would treat her with just as much love as the new baby. (please don't take that the wrong way.. I am not *in ANY way* trying to be rude, mean or insensitive)

I know it doesn't make things feel any better, but it is a little thing between adoptive parents who had tried for a really long time. As soon as they adopt, they get pregnant. Something about them relaxing....

I can imagine the pain you feel though... that is so hard. I am SO sorry, hun. Feel welcome to PM me ANY TIME. I am here for ya! And like Jen said, I would give you a call if you need to talk.
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June 14th, 2008, 10:38 AM
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How are things going with this? Have you decided to confront them? I have really been thinking about you and this situation. I can imagine your pain... please update us.
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June 14th, 2008, 08:47 PM
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How are things going with this? Have you decided to confront them? I have really been thinking about you and this situation. I can imagine your pain... please update us. [/b]

I really want to ask her about it but then again I don't because I don't want to say anything and P*** her off and then have her stop sending me pictures of Lainey and updateing me about her. So I am really torn. I am just still in shock.
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