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September 17th, 2010, 11:37 PM
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cry over the loss of your birth child?
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September 20th, 2010, 08:57 AM
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It depends. Sometimes I go months, sometimes its every day.

Lately, I have been thinking about her more then usual, and I've been crying more often. Last night Matthew was snuggling with me and giving me kisses, and that made me cry....I never got that with Rebecca.

Overall, I cry way less then I used to. It used to be a daily occurance for me, and there were times when I never thought I could never move on with my life. But with time, all wounds heal
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September 30th, 2010, 12:40 AM
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Sounds like exactly my answer. It is likely because I am getting ready to see her. Every day is a battle and every day I am sad but it has gotten better.
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September 30th, 2010, 08:23 AM
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My adoption counselor always told me that it doesn't get easier as time goes on, you just learn how to cope and deal with your emotions. You will never miss her less, but hoepfully you will feel more at peace with your decision as time goes on.
And I completely agree with that!
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