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I think Surroogates are amazing people, but I couldn't do it. I just don't think I could ever go through a pregnancy again, for someone else. Even if you know that baby isn't yours from day 1, I would imagine you still get attached......
See I think I could if I KNEW I could get pregnant with my own child right after. Well and if I KNEW I would have contact with the family to see what little creature I helped grow. I think I would do it if it weren't for the fact that I have had higher risk pregnancies and would be denied for it.
Honestly the hardest point of the whole ordeal wasn't carrying her, giving birth to her, handing her over, or walking away. For me it was getting that first set of pictures of her. I still feel that jerk and instant rubber band snap of pain of loss from when I saw "my" baby. Oh man now I am boohooing...