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June 16th, 2009, 12:36 PM
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I called and my betas were 125. It did exactly what i thought it would which was going up just a little. I wish it would've just gone down, but i believe it's only a matter of time before i'll m/c. I've been bleeding a little today, not a lot yet, but it's definitely something. I think it's the start of more bleeding which at this point i'm welcoming with open arms. I really just want to move on!

The person on the phone told me i need to get a shot because my blood type is O- and the doctor wants to get my betas checked again soon. I told her i'm going to go elsewhere to get it all done. So i'll be calling my regular doctor and asking her to order that to be done. In the meantime DH and I plan to meet with some OBGYNs to find one we like for our future pregnancy.

Even though my betas didn't clearly show me i'm m/c, i feel like i finally got my answer. I'm confident it will happen soon. I know it will be hard and i won't stay as content as i feel at this moment, but we'll get through it. Can someone reassure me that the bleeding does indeed mean things are finally getting moving?! If it stops i'm really not going to be happy!
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June 16th, 2009, 12:41 PM
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I'm so sorry. I'm sure you're glad to finally have an answer, but it's not the one you were looking for. *hugs*
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June 16th, 2009, 12:44 PM
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June 16th, 2009, 12:45 PM
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I'm sorry honey...I wish I could say something that make you feel better but I can't so here is me just wanting to show support and sympathy! I hope you'll get an end to all of this, one way or another. *hugs*
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I have never experienced a miscarriage myself, so I wish I could help you. I am glad for your sake that you seem at peace with what is going on. I think one of the hardest parts is not knowing. I am also really glad that you are choosing to go elsewhere. I would never stay with a provider that made me feel as that Dr made you feel. Good for you and good luck on your hunt.
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June 16th, 2009, 12:46 PM
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I wish I could tell you that I know one way or the other... But I'm really not sure I wish it were more clear cut for you
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this but I'm glad there is some progress for you so you can begin the healing process.
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June 16th, 2009, 01:04 PM
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I'm just lurking and i saw your post and wanted to offer my support.. I just miscarried 2 weeks ago, and wanted to let you know if you have any questions or need someone to talk to you can PM me.. Hang in there hun.
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June 16th, 2009, 01:30 PM
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Krista! You are in my prayers, hun!
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June 16th, 2009, 02:05 PM
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June 16th, 2009, 02:23 PM
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I'm so sorry Krista. I wish I had some words of reassurance but I have none. I hope you find another OB/GYN who you like.

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June 16th, 2009, 02:41 PM
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I am so sorry Krista, but glad that you finally got some answers :sad:

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June 16th, 2009, 02:58 PM
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Krista~ I don't have any info., but I just want to support you and wish you lots of luck no matter what happens! Finding a new OBGYN is a great idea! HUGS Sweetie!!!!
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June 16th, 2009, 02:59 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this, but I also totally understand your relief. It is much better than not knowing. I hope it's all over for you soon sweetie, so you can move on. You'll be in my T&Ps.
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June 16th, 2009, 03:04 PM
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I'm so sorry for the bad news but glad you finally have some answers.
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